About love is a matter of heart, it is also about soul mate, Man only design but God that determines our soul mate.
The matter of the heart no law, What more coercion.
As far as ....., and as deep as any Atlantic ocean our love for a person, if he is unrequited, it is difficult to end it with marriage.
Love is not always with a soul mate but a mate is always with love.
History tells us that Prophet Yusuf Alaihisalam was a very handsome young man. Even by the permission of Allah he is very much charmed women. One of them is the wife of his own master named Zulaikha very fascinated by the beauty of the Prophet Joseph alaihisalam.
The scholars of commentators say that the age of the Prophet Joseph alaihisalam while still living in the palace ranged from 20 to 25 years. If we look from his age alaihisalam, we can imagine how the turmoil of a young man when the age. At the age of the high impetus lust, the Prophet Yusuf alaihisalam just reject it.
Though he alaihisalam is located in a foreign country where his status is only as a slave traded. Where this slave status is the lowest strata and vulnerable to crime in society at that time.
An Imam Ibn Taymiyyah said that, "The stranger is difficult to avoid doing evil", but it turns out not for Nabiyullah Yusuf Alaihisalam, He Alaihisalam can reject the invitation of someone who is very beautiful zulaikha when in the palace there is no one besides them both. Not only that, all the doors of the palace doors have been closed by Zulaikha. It is remarkable that alaihisalam was able to prevent himself from accepting a sinful invitation by a Zulaikha who at that time was very attractive again.
At that time the Prophet Joseph alaihisalam said "I seek refuge in Allah", and Allah has kept himself from doing immorality, he alaihisalam escape from the test of faith.
Love is about choice, and the Prophet Yusuf Alaihisalam prefers obedience to Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala, beliaua alaihisalam accepts the risk of his rejection of his employer's invitation. Then briefly, the Prophet Yusuf aihisalam was finally locked up in prison.
As time passed, it was now time for the Prophet Yusuf alaihisalam to be free from his confinement in the prison of the palace. There are many interesting stories that begins in prison Prophet Yusuf alaihisalam, ranging from interpreting a dream that can not be interpreted by the people trust the king, then believed to be a treasurer palace until it became king to replace Zulaikha husband after death.
This is called a soul mate to meet. Prophet Yusuf alaihisalam was finally reunited with Zulaikha who this time to get married. The story of pernihakannya is not contained in the Holy Qur'an as well as the name of Zulaikha, but through scholars of commentators we can find out. One of them is Imam Tabari who has narrated from Muhammad ibn Ishaq wrote there is a romantic dialogue between Prophet Yusuf with Zulaikha alaihisalam when they were married.
"Is not this kind of opportunity better nan honor than our previous encounter when you are excited to vent your passionate desires".
Kemdian Zulaikha answered it with a diplomatic and romantic answer,
"O people of the most trusted, do not marginalize me what you say it, to be honest and admit when we first meet that in your eyes I will look pretty and charming, well-established life with the royal title, and everything I had, but when I was so tormented by my husband do not want any woman menjamahi no exception with me, then I will admit wholeheartedly the gift of God given beauty and strength on you. "
Finally the Prophet Joseph alaihisalam found that Ra'il (Zulaikha) is still a virgin. Because since marriage, Zulaikha never even met by the king of al-aziz. The prophets Joseph and Zulaikha end up with two boys named Afra'im and Misya .
Jodoh must meet, if indeed Allah is destined to be sure that one day, sooner or later God will bring together through qodarnya. Understanding like this becomes very important for us, especially for those who are still alone and in the waiting period.
We can see for yourself how many men and women who have sacrificed their obedience to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, just because the love of the creature, the fear of losing his soul mate, fear that his soul mate is taken by him and other reasons.
But from the story of Prophet Yusuf alaihisalam has taught us all how we should be in love. There is no prohibition against us for human love the opposite sex, but we must remember that our love to the people not to tarnish the love and obedience to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. Make always God first and foremost, Insha Allah we will be happy together dengah dody that Allah meet with kit.
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