Top Signs that you are being cheated on+Personal advice.

in #life6 years ago

Here are some top signs you are being cheated on in a relationship. Sometimes it's your fault and sometimes it's not your fault you just have to make the right decisions if you don't want to end up hurt.

1.)THEY ACCUSE YOU OF CHANGING,BUT IN REALITY IT'S THEM

Usually when a female is cheating on you it's almost so obvious you really don't want to pay attention to the signs. When i was getting cheated on their were little subtle things. She would take little "Jabs" at me, saying how i'm just so disrespectful(which i can be sometimes-LIBRA HERE), how she "Doesn't look at me the same". This is obviously implying that she has just started cheating or has thoughts of dipping out of the relationship. This is the first sign that you should head for the hills. Faithful girlfriends would rather compromise or if they did jump to conclusions like this they would make up for it or show you that you mean the world to them.

2.) THEY FORGET THAT THEY TOLD YOU SOMETHING OR DIDN'T TELL YOU SOMETHING.

Most of the time conversations in relationships are confidential, but not when your significant other is "Confiding" in another person. Something as simple as a their favorite TV show episode that they never tals about/always talks about they tends to repeat what they told you. They have probably been talking to someone else about the same stuff but obviously forgot they didn't tell you that phone bill was due, or they had to pay more on their student loan this month, or maybe they were once short on the cable bill and when you try to pay them they have it paid. This is another subtle sign that they have been snooping around in another dog's yard if you know what i mean.

3.)THEY KEEP STRICT TABS ON WHERE YOU ARE.

This one may come as a surprise, but not really once i break it down to you. Say your car is down and you have to be to work after your girlfriend and you get off before her. So you take her to work before you go to work so that means you have the car. Lets just say you have to be to work at 3 and get off at 11, and she has to be to work at 11 am and gets off at 12 midnight. This was a situation i was in before. She would start to not let me use the car when it was the best solution, when i did have the car she wondered where i was 24/7. You may think that this is her being a good girlfriend but really it's the other way around. She wants to know where you are so she can do what she wants with who she wants. Maybe she lied and said she didn't have to work once she comes to get you . Once you look at it in these ways you will start to notice that she fulls of shit. Don't be a fool, be a scientist, pay attention to your significant other and do some digging.

Hell if you have to purposely start arguments to see how far they are willing to take it. I wasn't working for 5 months and then i miraculously started working at the job my EX (then girlfriend) started working at. But by that time i was already a good 5 months into getting cheated on so that just added to the FUCKERY she was trying to pull. Point is people, once you get to a certain point and you begin to think that their is "SOMEONE ELSE". Nine times out of Ten it is. So before you go down the lonely road of heartbreak remember what i told you and use the tips and pay attention to these signs closely.