Totally agree with you...
But then on the other hand, it's up to the 2 partners to make each other understand where the relationship should go.
It's easy to put all blame on the other gender if you are 2.
The problem if a man is to "manly" is that women don't like that when man doesn't always agree with her (no matter if she is wrong or not)
And finally she will always go look for an other guy that does agree...
So: men are (from my point of view) just being pushed in a corner with a lot of accusations where actually both have a role to play...
The answer: talk and work on what you want!
Women just jump from guy to guy as if it's a huge sell-out...
That's not normal...!
What do you think?