When we find fault with others, or when we know the shortcomings of our siblings and we are eager to rebuke them, then rebuke him when alone

in #life6 years ago

Advising among fellow Muslims is indeed necessary, let alone because we are indeed religious, because the other religion is what we should still do, if it is in the form of kindness.

But what we must keep in mind is to advise in a wise way, advise those who you think are wrong at their own time, because whatever their mistakes, we must keep our pride.

So what if social media? Yes, especially if on social media, if you really intend to be good, then advise yourself through personal channels, don't direct them in the comments column, because that means you have made an announcement about the shame of others.


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Even though the advice is advisable is our duty as a Muslim, then we should train ourselves to become Muslims who are good at expressing criticism or suggestions, because a good Muslim is certainly wise if it reminds his brother in kindness.

Remember, When we find fault with others, or when we know the shortcomings of our siblings and we are eager to rebuke them, then rebuke him when alone.

Take care of his feelings, because whoever he is and how big he is, he must keep protecting his heart with love, because what we have to hate is his fault, not the person.

Do not let us rebuke him when many people, because that really will be very hurtful. Because indirectly our actions are the same as we have announced their disgrace in front of many people.

We must wisely convey our good intentions, even though the mistakes they make are very big, but we are also obliged to maintain their pride.

And if indeed we love our brothers and sisters in particular, then of course we must keep our honor accountable.

And remember wisely, that we are not yet completely pure from mistakes and shortcomings, then what if we have a position? And other people also arbitrarily rebuke us regardless of our feelings and without caring about the place, it really hurts right? Yes, other people we want to reprimand are certainly that way. Be wise in giving advice.

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