According to research by Dr. Menis Yousry, the leading psychologist in the world has demonstrated how many ways to build a relationship is also how to break a relationship. With the current society, with more and more life, more and more people outside of society, one can easily lose a relationship with the following 10 common mistakes:
- Lack of respect
In all relationships of life whether friends, colleagues or spouses, respect is always an important factor in maintaining a relationship between people. One of the signs of disrespect of the enemy is a lie, usually a harmless lie will not affect the relationship. But in important matters, it is said to be "disrespectful of the feelings" of the enemy.
- Control everything
At the beginning of a relationship is the relationship between men and women, husband and wife, one of them will tend to control the enemy. In relationships that often make mistakes because they think they are married, things must be shared with each other, also tell each other. But they forget that sharing and control are only marginally fragile, and everyone needs their own sky to enjoy the fun of other relationships such as friends, colleagues, relatives,..
So instead of controlling the relationship to suffocate, become uncomfortable, give each other a private space so that their lives can be more fun.
- Do not know selflessness and sacrifice
No one is perfect and everyone has at least one mistake, even yourself. Therefore, be tolerant and generous for each other's errors and mistakes. Your forgiveness and sacrifice will make your spouse feel more loved. They also appreciate and respect you better.
- Want someone else to change for you
This is one of the most common concepts in relationships. In fact, the starting point of this desire is not bad, they just want their partners to become better. But they did not know that this made the relationship break up because I could not change things that I could not even myself, how much more this is just one-sided desire, this just made Let the enemy feel hurt and not be respected. So instead of trying to change people for you, love them with what they have. This not only helps the relationship develop in a positive way but also makes the two feel happier.
- Lack of confidence
In order to have a lasting relationship, trust is the core element that is indispensable. Therefore, when one of them feels disbelief in the other, it is at the point where the relationship goes down. So stay true to your partner from word to action, always putting trust in the other person so that they can feel the trust from you. They will also trust you in the same way that you trust them.
