The real reason everybody tend to love and fall in love is quite mis-understood.do we truly understand what love is?....or probably who is love.so many questions to asked that yet we don't have a deeper understanding of love.love is not a feeling,love is not what you do to expect something in return.love is knowing that you love and you might not be loved in return.
Love is not based on what I can get in return,if not then your love is with a price better still with a benefit.our perspective on love craves for reward directly or indirectly.but to understand love is to understand Christ.....yes!!!!...Christ!!!.the love of the father encompasses all things.love is Christ and Christ is love,not that we love him (because you don't have the capacity to as a man)but that he loved us first.christ demonstrated his love towards us while we were yet sinners Christ loved us not after we have been good,perfect and obedient,caring(mans standard).
Love is Christ giving himself up for you on the cross despite you nailing him on it.christ knows you are not perfect and that you will never be but yet he choose to have loved you.the shape of love is a heart a lot will say but I say it's a cross,which consists in the death,burial and resurrection.without these three things we would never understand what love is.
Man does not have the capacity to show you what love really means but Christ does."man will say I love you because you are good,sexy,caring,romantic,shaped but Christ says you don't have a quality yet I so much love you"
A man can only love you if he understands how much Christ has loved him and has forgiven him all his sins,both past,present and in the future.there is nothing you can do to make God love you more or less.you are the beloved.he has loved you before the foundation of the world,he has choosen you and freed you from guilt and shame.he died your death on the cross and gave you eternal life,his life.
His love never condemns and that love is a person Jesus Christ my father your father!!!.this is my understanding of what love is I would also want to hear from you and learn from your own perception.