I know friends who have had miscarriages and they have to act like it is normal. And when they speak of kids they speak of the ones they have, but it is clear that in their mind they are adding a couple more. They just don't speak about it. Society can be cruel at times, and the less said about how doctors treat women the better. As a man I was not even aware of this situation till a friend of mine started working on collecting women's experiences in India and abroad. This one was the one that really shocked me on how much disregard happens in hospitals to pregnant women - https://womaning.substack.com/p/today-i-cross-a-line.
There is nothing I can say to reduce your sorrow but for what it is worth I am sorry and I wish you did not have to go through that experience. That fact that you shared your experience shows how brave and pure you are, and it will surely help people understand better, and maybe keep their minds a little more focussed and not just accept whatever Doc's or society tell us. Once again thanks to you for writing this down, and thanks to @ibbtammy for sharing it. Love to the lil angel up in the heaven and blessings to all her siblings. God bless you all.
It is terrible how we turn away from these things in society. Thank you for the compassion in your comment, and for taking a moment to talk about what you have seen other women face. Women need the support of men so much when it comes to childbearing- not just from our husbands and male family members, but also from friends and acquaintances! Bless you for standing with us 💚