The minds of so many people do not belong to them. Such number of people have had their thoughts purchased by or lent to other people.To such characters, other people are the kings and queens of their thoughts. Many of such people have lost their sleep because of what other people would think or say.
In fact, for a substantial number of them, their lives constitute a combination of an insignificant percentage of their own thoughts and a greater percentage of others' preferences.So, they can't eat because their substantial others don't think it is good to eat. They only jump on the bandwagon of what the owners of their minds feel is the in-thing.
They will do a thing only because the owners of their minds feel it's time or right to do it.They take all the steps in their lives because they were convinced by the owners of their minds that it's better to do it not because of their own personal conviction.
In the process they have the whole of their minds taken over by offenses that came out of real or perceived betrayal by those they lent their minds to.
Those who allows their minds to be occupied by the offenses of other people would no doubt convert their minds to properties of such people instead of making it their own minds.
The only way to have your own mind and to become your authentic self is to set your mind free! And make it your exclusive possession, therein lies your uniqueness.
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