Hello, dear Steemians!
Every man experiences a moment of reckoning at some point in their lives.
The moment where everything you are and everything you have been becomes clear and you instantly realize what you should do from then on.
From that moment, everything becomes much more serious to your eyes.
You will hold onto your responsibilities and take care of them to the best of your capabilities. You will know your purpose and do everything you can to realize your vision of the world.
But what happens before that moment?
I once learned an important lesson that essentially turned me into the man I am now. In this blog post, I want to share that lesson with you.
In the words of the great Jordan Peterson, “You should be humble enough to understand that if you can’t order your own life, you shouldn’t be trying to order anything more complicated than that.”
What those words mean, essentially, is that you cannot expect to change anything in the world when you don’t even have control over your own life.
If you can’t even reach your ideal self and fulfill your values on a daily basis, how do you expect to influence anything else in this world?
What’s more is that even if you try, you are only going to end up making everything worse.
You cannot change anything in this world, or let’s say change anything properly, when you haven’t even figured out your own life.
So, the first step towards achieving anything of value in this world and in the life that is given to you is to figure out yourself. Who are you? What is your purpose?
Are you willing to put everything on the line to achieve that purpose? Can you gather your will and resolve to finally do yourself justice and order everything in your life?
Because if you fail at doing that, you cannot achieve anything greater than yourself.
Coming to terms with yourself and undergoing a journey of self-discovery is absolutely essential before attempting to do anything of importance and value in this world.
Without that sense of keen judgment for the world and yourself, you cannot really deal with anything that goes beyond the threshold of what you can handle.
Without that sense of understanding and wisdom, you cannot have empathy for the things that require your attention.
Having control over your own thoughts and feeling is the most important endeavor that you could undertake in your whole life.
If you don’t, you will always remain a shadow of what you could have been. Your full potential is unlocked only when you decide to deal with matters that are most important… the matters of your personal life.
Get your own life in order and the rest of the world will soon follow!
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Please, take the time to read the text below, it can always change in some points and it is it that has made this community understand and help each other. I would like you to pay close attention to what is written in these notes. Try to really follow what I ask of all of you who are a few months old with me contributing meaningful comments and we have built something really good here along with people who have a positive mindset and we have managed to get more people together like that.
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Always read this text of notes because I can making important changes in this text like update names in the list and things to the growth and understanding of how we can improve our foundations and how this community was built until here.
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I have been working very hard on this blog since the beginning. I have a very busy life but I am giving my best and believe me I have shared experiences that I have been coaching thousands of people and I know that the change of the Mindset should be daily. I am already grateful to see you giving upvotes to each other and you can see this with the fact that many already have 8, 9, 10 upvotes. But I'm sure that with the effort of all of us we will see a community with, more and more upvotes each others and for that everyone should get engaged so we can make it come true. I believe and we can! Resteem...
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You all know the goal! We can reach: More and More Upvotes each others!
Attention!!!
I'm reading all the meaningful comments from the posts.
I am here making a list of all of you who have helped build this community by voting for each other who write meaningful comments and soon I will respond to everyone with comment and thank you all because I can already see this spirit being built in this Positive Mindset community and help between all of you.
You will receive my upvote in all material and brief comments I will do this in all the posts I am following very closely and I can see what the people who are generous and contribute to this legacy that I am trying to build with all of you can become reality in a short time.
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First of all, I would like to thank all of you, who are the most active and proactive in this community, showing your generosity and always with meaningful comments. From now on I will always make a list of these incredible people who have helped to expand our goal of growing ever more.
But I ask that if you are new around here you read many of the previous posts because they make it clear that we are building a community with respect among all, generosity and this blog is for those who really want to start moving their Mindset to positive and moreover be part of the growth of all of us who contribute to this blog. Please do not ask to include you in the list if you are just wanting upvotes because we want here people genuinely attuned to growth and good attitudes and as I have always said with Respect as the basis of all, generosity and positivity!
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Your message is clear, if I can not bring order to my life, I can not participate positively in the lives of othersYou got a 1.30% upvote from @minnowvotes courtesy of @tramelibre!
Greetings @chbartist
It is ironic to try to change the lives of others if, one's life is anarchic. It is advisable to change the stereotypes, which may be giving a bad influence, which does not allow our improvement as an individual.I learned this the hard way as I would try to help others (family) with their hardships without taking care of my own and ultimately resulted in both having severe challenges in achieving goals. I then learned to focus on improving myself which allowed me the ability to help others bot only with the resources but the knowledge to do so!
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This the right thing to do. start with your self and the world will become a better place
True, everything we want to put in order will reflect on our ability to conduct ourselves properly. We can not lead others to change if we ourselves aren't changed.
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At times I have come across some people who seek to control the lives of others, judge, criticize, think, without realizing that their lives are turned a chaos. It is easier to see the defects of others than one's own. I think that this type of person should see himself in the mirror, find himself, recognize himself, accept himself and be better; then, for sure, he will no longer have so much desire to criticize what surrounds him, because a person who is internally balanced gets the external balance. Thank you for your words, @
Ya ofcourse if you want to set example of your to world then you have to initiate that work or you have to make changes in your self . It is not easy to order someone without making change in yourselves @chbartist
@THANKS!
For me, meditation has been a great tool to bring order to my mind. Being present to the moment is not an easy thing to do, all the time, but meditation can help bring a little bit more order to your life as a whole.
It's difficult to stop your thoughts which lead to disorder in your life, but you can certainly try, especially with meditation. Thanks for posting!
Absolutely accurate. Think of it this way: over whom or what in this world do you have the most complete control. No matter how much power one accumulates, the answer to that question will always be the same: yourself. And once you make self-management a habit, it becomes easier to influence the world around you.
@chbartist To be responsible and move in society with clerity create our good image. Main preority foucus us to spread lights 🚥 of maturity. Well very good post I like your wording
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The first step to change the world is to change yourself!
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The most important thing is to have control of our own life, it is worthless to want to control everything else if we do not have our own control. Success depends on how we manage our lives and if you do not have control over it, it would be very difficult to succeed.
Every body done systematic life whole world automatically proper well.
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people who can change the world are someone who finished with themselves
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very good blog
You said it. First we have to do, then only teach or rule others.
Exactly. What we don't realize is these things take time and patience. And what we lack in our life is time and dedication
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what we lack in our life is time and dedication !, nice post
always an honor to read your post, (Y)
This is definitely something that we forget about in our day to day. Often when things seem out of control it is because we are not in control of ourselves. Self awareness and self control is of utmost importance in life.
That's extremely true. Without a solid foundation (an ordered life) there is no way that you could possibly build anything on top of it.
Yea you are right as this is true. If we are showing light, we should be the first reflecting the light first to others
Putting it short and straight to the point,
If you want want to see change in the world, then be the change that you are expecting. period
Cheers
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If you want to change the world, start off by making your bed. Thank you @chbartist for your words. By the way i highly recommend "12 rules of life" by Jordan Peterson who is mentioned in this article
Great lesson, I should have learned years ago to look after myself before helping others! Thank you there will be many in this community that need to hear this lesson and hopefully many are young enough to make the change now and see the results. Get your life in order and everything else will soon follow🙏
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Me I don't have power to my own desicion maybe Its the time I force myself to do it
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es así amigo debemos organizar nuestra vida hasta un punto de satisfacción que nos de tranquilidad para así poder saber que al opinar o aconsejar a otros estemos consciente de lo que expresamos teniendo una base solida que otros lo noten y puedan usar este patrón como un ejemplo a seguir sino seriamos mas falso que un billete sin valor seamos primero nuestro mejor ejemplo al vernos en el espejo dela vida y lo que reflejemos deslumbrara a todos y sera un buen modelo a seguir.
I always seems to be happy and relieved whenever I read you read post or check your blog daily @chbartist
I always get to learn some lessons from it like I did today, I love the point where you said
The moment where everything you are and everything you have been becomes clear and you instantly realize what you should do from then on.
Thanks for sharing them to us from your best ability. I'm really looking forward for your future posts.
It is always easy to point out other faults what others not able to achieve, preach others.We should be Doers, not talkers, after all, actions speak louder than words no matter what you have in your mind, if we want to make our goals, plans into reality only we have to take actions, it is very easy to preach but to take actions.
If we want to motivate or influence someone, the best way to show recognize self first and achieve our goal, the results which will impact him more than if you only talk.
Thanks @chbartist
Hi friend @chbartist
Absolutely true. Whatever change we want to see in the people near to us then we must change with ourself first. Basically change starts with ourself first.
It's not fair to expect change from others instead we must Show the Change first then there are high chances that they will adopt it. Thanks
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Precious words. This is one of the subjects I wanted to talk about in my blog because as an inmigrant, this is extremely important towards achieving important goals in our lives.
True to the point
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Bueno felicidades por tu post es muy cierto lo que dices Tu hay que cambiar primero para poder cambiar a otros...
ejemplo: no le puedes decir a otros déjense de hipocresía cuando hay días que Tu mismo eres hipócrita contigo mismo al estar haciendo algo que sabes que te causa muchos dolor pero sigues y sigues en lo mismo lo que mas cuesta creo es empezar a cambiar a uno mismo!!! saludos
you have more reason men. To make a better world, first there are will be to get better we.
I like the enthusiasm for positive change, but we are all much more complex than this. Intelligence has many flavors. Leading change in the world may be one of those flavors. Many of those individuals responsible for wonderful and beautiful change to the world have neglected their personal lives to make the change happen.
Thanks for the post.