Successful and achieved people are different from the rest of the population, in that they have created powerful and effective mindsets for life.
But how are these outlooks shaped?
How do they bring these ideas, concepts, and methods to the underlying pages of their lives?
Well, as I have already talked about this, it all goes back to our values and how seriously we take them.
Taking your values for granted can lead you down a dark path in life.
Determining and prioritizing these values, however, can give you the happy ending that you have always hoped for.
Let’s talk about ‘Listening’!
Saying less and listening more can be incredibly beneficial to us.
I would very much like to start explaining this by one of William Shakespeare’s quotes:
“Give every man thy ear but few thy voice.”
The great playwright is explicitly stating that one must evaluate incoming information and be less concerned about their own ideas.
When you are listening, you are receiving the ideas that may be different from what you believe, and that can very well change your perception of the world.
You know those kinds of people who constantly interrupt you in the middle of a sentence?
Surely, we all have experienced it, and it is basically because the person isn’t thinking about what you are trying to say in the conversation.
Let’s not be that kind of person who’s merely waiting for you to catch a breath and toss down their ideas at you!
A person like that would not even give other people’s ideas a chance, let alone accept them. So, let’s do some counting.
How much talking do you do on an average day?
How much do you listen?
Most people tend to treat conversation like some sort of competition or a challenge.
They think that the person who says the most and manages to persuade other people is the true winner.
Being the perfect listener is a good thing, because at the very least, you will not say dumb things.
Abraham Lincoln once said,
“Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt.”
Now is the time to sit down and create a list of whatever values that come to your mind, and prioritize them one by one.
It is vital to look back on them once you’ve written them down. When you understand your values, you will learn to live by them and stay committed to your true self.
Remember one thing: Your values are not you, but they work like a compass and point you to the right direction.
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NOTES ABOUT THIS BLOG!
Always read this text of notes because I can making important changes in this text like update names in the list and things to the growth and understanding of how we can improve our foundations and how this community was built until here.
I have been working very hard on this blog since the beginning. I have a very busy life but I am giving my best and believe me I have shared experiences that I have been coaching thousands of people and I know that the change of the Mindset should be daily. I am already grateful to see you giving upvotes to each other and you can see this with the fact that many already have 8, 9, 10 upvotes. But I'm sure that with the effort of all of us we will see a community with, more and more upvotes each others and for that everyone should get engaged so we can make it come true. I believe and we can! Resteem...
***Remember Community: Please, if you commented and upvote on a new post I did, please always go back to the previous one because if someone in the community commented lastly because of time zone differences it will be without your upvote and that would not be fair.
You all know the goal! We can reach: More and More Upvotes each others!
I'm reading all the meaningful comments from the posts.
I am here making a list of all of you who have helped build this community by voting for each other who write meaningful comments and soon I will respond to everyone with comment and thank you all because I can already see this spirit being built in this Positive Mindset community and help between all of you.
You will receive my upvote in all material and brief comments I will do this in all the posts I am following very closely and I can see what the people who are generous and contribute to this legacy that I am trying to build with all of you can become reality in a short time.
First of all, I would like to thank all of you, who are the most active and proactive in this community, showing your generosity and always with meaningful comments. From now on I will always make a list of these incredible people who have helped to expand our goal of growing ever more.
But I ask that if you are new around here you read many of the previous posts because they make it clear that we are building a community with respect among all, generosity and this blog is for those who really want to start moving their Mindset to positive and moreover be part of the growth of all of us who contribute to this blog.
Thanks All of You!!!!