Sometimes struggle is what we need in our lives. If God allows us to live without a barrier of struggle, it might just paralyze us. We may not be as strong as we need to sustain our aspirations and expectations.
We may never be able to "Fly". Verily, the Lord is Most Merciful and Most Merciful.
We ask the Power ... And God gives us difficulties to make us tough.
We ask for a policy ... And God gives us Life's problems to be solved so we grow wiser.
We ask for prosperity ... And God gives us Brain and Power to be fully utilized in prosperity.
We ask for Constancy ... And God gives Disasters and Dangers to overcome.
We ask Love ... And God gives us troubled people to be saved and loved.
We Ask for mercy / kindness ... And God gives us alternating opportunities.
That's how God guides us. If I do not get what I want, then I do not get everything I need? Sometimes God does not give what we ask, but certainly God gives the best for us, most of us do not understand knowing, do not even want to accept God's plan, but that is the best for us.
Keep fighting and trying, if that's the best then surely God will give it to us.