Of course, I sometimes question myself. Of course, I'm uncertain, or I lose the balance. It's not like I just love myself all the time without any work. For me, first of all, setting an impossible standard is not the goal, but to develop a system where I can immediately resolve the uncertainty.
There is so much to do with the inner world. I'm so excited when I try or develop a new technique that I forget about maintaining all the areas I worked on. But then I direct the energy where I need it most. That is why sometimes an area is in the background because if I don't have to work with it for a long time, it gets less attention.
When the moment comes and I notice that I don't feel balanced, I'll bring the energy back where it's needed. I will go back to my techniques that work for me and fill the cracks, but the foundations of self-love stay solid.
For me, self-development is like any other relationship. This is a relationship with me and I have to work on it every day, I have to pay attention to it, I have to be attentive to keep it strong.
One of the most important mirrors for me is my friends. Often I'm alarmed when one mentions that I've been thinking too much for a while, or I complain too much lately, or my body posture is no longer healthy ... if I do not see it myself, they do and will immediately let me know.
Properly positioning these mirrors will help keep the bases strong and quickly fix the cracks in the walls of self-development.
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