You guys may not like my answer.
First of all, not caring what others think is a huge self-confidence piece that takes a while to master.
It's simply the greatest gift you can give yourself. You cannot live peacefully until you stop worrying about what others think.
Here's what I think this boils down to:
You care about what others think of you, because you fear they will judge you.
Now think about this:
As soon as you stop judging yourself for those things, the problem is gone.
S-O-L-V-E-D.
The solution is to stop judging yourself.
Think about it.
When you are affected by other people's opinion of you, essentially you are saying, “your opinion of me is of greater value than my own.”
You guys may hate me for saying this, but when you come from the heart and live with real integrity, you're never ever ever ever ever nervous around others, and you simply don't give a flying f*ck what other people think of you.
It's as simple as that.
An honest, heart-centered man who lives with integrity feels no shame or shyness, PERIOD.
If you're feeling upset and defensive about what I just said, and you want to stop following me… THAT'S JUST A SIGN THAT I'M ONTO SOMETHING…
LOL.
Thanks for reading.