While still going out first, I had a little doubt my girlfriend about how when he became Dad later. How come? Whenever she met the children, she did not seem very enthusiastic. It tends to be annoyed. Not so much interacting, much less inviting. Until finally we get married and have children, frankly I am very grateful to finally marry my husband now. Do not GR yes, if read. Hehehe.
" Begins When First Child Is Born "
As soon as our first child was born, my husband swiftly picked him up. He is also the most patient of the baby's affairs while still in the hospital. To the extent, when the baby would be bathed by the nurse alone my husband to follow. The baby cries a little, he immediately wary and immediately consulted the nun or doctor. Perhaps the nuns in our maternity hospitals are somewhat resentful of these rempong fathers. Ha ha ha. I think my husband is just rempong because euphoria has children, but it turns out he is a real caring and involved in every business of Elika, our son. From the beginning, he was fluent first in bathing Elika. Until the affairs of diaper change is also finally he can. Finally, for the first few months, bathing was his father's business. After the bathing, I will clothe and dress Elika. Likewise about lull Elika. The early months are our toughest months. Where at that time Elika still have to sleep with ditimang-timang few hours, especially at midnight until dawn. But my husband is always available. As soon as Elika finish suckling from me but still fussy, she will take turn holding Elika and cuddling until Elika soundly. Almost every day so. Even now if Elika is fussy at midnight, my husband will wake up and calm Elika down to sleep. We deliberately guns in nurse because I'm the kind of person who does not mind if Elika is taken care of by others (except family well). At home we also used ART (Home Assistant) who returned home. Again because we are so comfortable there are outsiders who live at home. It's complicated, tired, sometimes bored also Elika's own business, uh both. Especially if his father again work outside the home. Everything should be done alone. However, once he came home from work, without hesitation he will directly help me take care of Elika. Fortunately my husband did not have to go to the office from Monday to Friday. She only had to go to the office on certain days during the week, but mostly on other days she had a meeting outside that was usually daylight. As for the matter of my own work is also fortunately very flexible. I am deliberately looking for work that can still be done at home. However, when I had to work out of town, Elika and her father were boyong. During my work, her father who takes care of Elika starts from bathing, feeding Elika to eat, to invite to play at the hotel.
" The Relationship of Children and Parents Is Very Important "
I think that should take care of and educate children is the duty of father and mother. Currently the role of a wife can also earn a living to help her husband meet the needs of everyday families, then the role of husband should also be able to help with household and child needs, right? Moreover, at this time many studies say that a child who is groomed and educated with father intervention will be better than if he was just raised and educated by a mother. Her confidence will grow well and will certainly be more daring to explore the surrounding environment if the growth is influenced also by the role of father. Father and mother have their respective roles in the development of their children. A father tends to be more encouraging in competition, independence, and achievement. While the mother is more likely on the side of justice, cooperation, and security.
In addition to affect the child's growth, the role of father and husband in assisting household affairs is also very influential on the emotional side of the mother. In addition to being a father, do not forget his role as husband. Do not just pampered children, husbands must also often spoil his wife. Certainly all mothers agree that taking care of the child, let alone that baby is very consuming energy, time, and emotion. Not to mention if you have to take care of your own household chores. Valentines from husbands can create the hormone oxytocin that can launch milk production, you know! In fact, often uttering romantic words and giving small surprises can also be the most powerful booster breastmilk.