You choose how you want to feel.

in #ocd3 years ago (edited)

Decide how you want to feel. You have to master how to not be controlled and triggered by everything outside of you. You can't walk around with a button that can easily be pushed. You can't be swayed left or right ever second by what others are saying and doing. You have to learn how to direct your inner emotions and gain inner stability.

Be too great for negativity and anything that tries to test you. Handle it gracefully and consciously.
You choose how you want to feel.

You choose to be sad, happy, excited, up, and or down.
trying to teach us one thing to be strong enough with all the circumstances that we encounter every morning".

The words you choose when you talk to yourself have a huge impact on your self-esteem, choose wisely Think about that one thing that always brings a smile to your face (that one thing that brings joy to your soul).

Do this for a few minutes a day and you will begin to be unaffected by small problems.

However, when people don't decide how they want to feel, they become reactors.
Reactors, tie their inner emotions to things, people, situations, and or circumstances outside of themselves. They wait till "this" happens to be happy. They can't be excited unless "that" happens. Have you noticed, that when you're just happy for no reason, people ask "what are you so happy about?"

It's like we just can't be in that state, without having a reason. And for most people, if there is no reason to be happy, they are either sad or depressed waiting for something on the outside to shift their inner state.

Do not hold back on things you love or want to do because of how you interpret your body. You are enough. You are more than enough. You are more than your exterior.

You are your inner being, your spirit. A smile and confidence are the most beautiful things you can wear.

It's not about the size of your dress. It's about the size of your mind and heart.
Embrace your body, observe and adore every curve, bone, and stretch mark.
Wear what makes you feel happy and comfortable in your own skin.
Do your hair and makeup (or don't do either) to your heart's desire.

Wear the crop top you've been eyeing up in that store window.
Want a bikini body? Put a bikini on your body, simple.
So, as hard as it may seem sometimes,
understand that the number on the scale doesn't measure the amount or significance of your contributions to this world.

Just because that dress doesn't fit you like you had hoped
doesn't mean that you're any less of a person.

Love your body, and your body will love you right back.

Woman's Power of confidence.

Note: All images are all in google images sources.


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I loved the images! Your state of mind is in your control, I agree

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Gandang messages, always positive! Ay type ko art pics, nice colorway.

thanks ^_^ kaso wala tayong masyadong supporta dami magaling na mga writers kaso wala eh ito lang talaga..ahehhe..pero positive parin..even I got cents in this platform. I will continue to write something helps me a lot with my skills in writing some articles and so on.

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