I couldn't upvote this post because I didn't get to it in time. I applaud you for the courage to become who you feel you are. Although I still have personal issues with the labeling (namely the pluralization of the Pronoun), I can understand the emotional dilemmas.
It's quite alright. I'm glad your support for me can outweigh your personal feelings. I'd gladly do the same for you.
I hope everything works itself out the way you want.