Oh @lordneroo
This is such a wonderful comment. It looks like we share the same opinion about overall subjective well-being. This is exactly what I tell people over, and over again. Especially to those who actually consciously choose NOT to forgive (personally, I find this a very peculiar choice).
Living in resentment can literally poison your body, being able to forgive is being able to live in happiness.
It is so fortunate that you are in a successful and happy marriage!
We are not happy all the time, of course; but we are most of the time. We learnt about ourselves, about each other's flaws and constantly work on making the most of our differences :)
it would be a pretty irresponsible decision to make right now and I try to avoid such decisions in life.
You seem to be very aware of your inner-self. Making sensible decisions upon self-evaluation paves the way to a life of emotional stability and high levels of subjective well-being lordneroo.
You will make a great sensible husband to some lucky girl out there! 😊