I came across this interesting Quora section where someone raised the question which one, a high EQ or IQ, is more beneficial in life.
The question is based on the assumption that only your EQ or IQ is high with the other being average or below average.
To my surprise, a psychology professor named Jordan B. Peterson has answered the question asserting that “There is NO SUCH THING AS EQ” and calling it “a fraudulent concept, a fad, a convenient band-wagon, a corporate marketing scheme.” I always thought that Emotional Intelligence was more important, but after reconsideration I think he actually has a very good point. I always thought I had a high Emotional Intelligence and was quite proud about that. What a shame if there is in deed no such thing as EQ. :P
I found Peterson's reply interesting enough to repost it here:
There is no such thing as EQ. Let me repeat that: “There is NO SUCH THING AS EQ.” The idea was popularized by a journalist, Daniel Goleman, not a psychologist. You can’t just invent a trait. You have to define it and measure it and distinguish it from other traits and use it to predict the important ways that people vary.
EQ is not a psychometrically valid concept. Insofar as it is anything (which it isn’t) it’s the Big Five trait agreeableness, although this depends, as it shouldn’t, on which EQ measure is being used (they should all measure THE SAME THING). Agreeable people are compassionate and polite, but they can also be pushovers. Disagreeable people, on average (if they aren’t too disagreeable) make better managers, because they are straightforward, don’t avoid conflict and cannot be easily manipulated.
Let me say it again: THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS EQ. Scientifically, it’s a fraudulent concept, a fad, a convenient band-wagon, a corporate marketing scheme. (Here’s an early critique by Davies, M., Stankov, L. and Roberts, D. Emotional intelligence: in search of an elusive construct. – PubMed – NCBI ; Here’s a conclusion reached by Harms and Crede, in an excellent article — comprehensive and well thought-through (2010): “Our searches of the literature revealed only six articles in which the authors either explicitly examined the incremental validity of EI scores over measures of both cognitive ability and Big Five personality traits in predicting either academic or work performance, or presented data in a manner that allowed examination of this issue. Not one of these six articles (Barchard,2003; Newsome, Day, & Catano, 2000;O’Connor & Little, 2003; Rode, Arthaud-Day, Mooney, Near, & Baldwin, 2008;Rode et al., 2007; Rossen & Kranzler,2009) showed a significant contribution for EI in the prediction of performance after controlling for both cognitive ability and the Big Five… For correlations involving the overall EI construct, EI explained almost no incremental variance in performance ([change in prediction] = .00. Findings were identical when considering only cases involving an ability-based measure of IE….” See: http://snip.ly/7kc45
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IQ is a different story. It is the most well-validated concept in the social sciences, bar none. It is an excellent predictor of academic performance, creativity, ability to abstract, processing speed, learning ability and general life success.
There are other traits that are important to general success, including conscientiousness, which is an excellent predictor of grades, managerial and administrative ability, and life outcomes, on the more conservative side.
It should also be noted that IQ is five or more times as powerful a predictor as even good personality trait predictors such as conscientiousness. The true relationship between grades, for example, and IQ might be as high as r = .50 or even .60 (accounting for 25-36% of the variance in grades). Conscientiousness, however, probably tops out at around r = .30, and is more typically reported as r = .25 (say, 5 to 9% of the variance in grades). There is nothing that will provide you with a bigger advantage in life than a high IQ. Nothing. To repeat it: NOTHING.
In fact, if you could choose to be born at the 95th percentile for wealth, or the 95th percentile for IQ, you would be more successful at age 40 as a consequence of the latter choice.
It might be objected that we cannot measure traits such as conscientiousness as well as we measure IQ, as we primarily rely on self or other-reports for the former. But no one has solved this problem. There are no “ability” tests for conscientiousness. I am speaking as someone who has tried to produce such tests for ten years, and failed (despite trying dozens of good ideas, with top students working on the problem). IQ is king. This is why academic psychologists almost never measure it. If you measure it along with your putatively “new” measure, IQ will kill your ambitions. For the career minded, this is a no go zone. So people prefer to talk about multiple intelligences and EQ, and all these things that do not exist.
PERIOD.THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS EQ. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS EQ. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS EQ.
By the way, there is also no such thing as “grit,” despite what Angela Duckworth says. Grit is conscientiousness, plain and simple (although probably more the industrious side than the orderly side). All Duckworth and her compatriots did was fail to notice that they had re-invented a very well documented phenomena, that already had a name (and, when they did notice it, failed to produce the appropriate mea culpas. Not one of psychology’s brighter moments). A physicists who “re-discovered” iron and named it melignite or something equivalent would be immediately revealed as ignorant or manipulative (or, more likely, as ignorant and manipulative), and then taunted out of the field. Duckworth? She received a MacArthur Genius grant for her trouble. That’s all as reprehensible as the self-esteem craze (self-esteem, by the way, is essentially .65 Big Five trait neuroticism (low) and .35 extraversion (high), with some accurate self-assessment of general life competence thrown in, for those who are a bit more self-aware). See http://snip.ly/5smyx
By the way, in case I haven’t made myself clear: THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS EQ. OR GRIT. OR “SELF-ESTEEM.”
It’s crooked psychology. Reminiscent of all the recent upheaval in the social psychology subfield: Final Report: Stapel Affair Points to Bigger Problems in Social Psychology
Both aren't exact. IQ is psychometrically valid because we have instruments that measures the activity of the brain while it is working. EQ can't be measure because emotions can't be measure, but we can see their effects indirectly in our life like: How many friends we have, how many times we smile etc. And this won't be an exact thing too. EQ and IQ has the nature of psychology, they are aproximations based on the others people "numbers" in order to make a PROBABLE diagnostic. But EQ is atractive to those people who have no knowledge of what neuroscience and numbers means, they think that is an attack to their integrity to talk about numbers, "the square thinking"... but is completly the opposite way. We have to learn to differentiate behaviour with the reality, the world exist outside from our minds, nature is the way that it is... like physics. Humans are a complete different story.
Ah, I appreciate your comment. I'm not sure whether "how many friends we have" and "how many times we smile" are indicator of good EQ. You can be extremely intelligent in reading other people's emotions, but you may simply not like the people around you. Or you may just be shy.
I will choose EQ))
This is one of the most interesting posts I have yet encountered on Steemit. A great topic to get into discussion and learn from it. Keep posting quality content Lin.. :)
Came across this post late, nevertheless a great piece! Personally, i'd choose EQ. Of course EQ isn’t quantifiable, but I feel in business the more you can work with your EQ whether it's building a relationship with a client and so on, the better that relationship will be. IQ can get you far, but I feel EQ will get you what you want.