Human psychology is a complex system that’s not very easy to understand, but it can be really helpful to know a few things about it in certain situations.
You don’t have to become a therapist to understand people, you just have to learn a few tricks. Here are 12 psychological facts that will make you life easier.
When a group of people is laughing, every person will instinctively look at the person he/she likes the most.
If, while you’re talking, someone is showing you their hands and palms, it’s a sign that the person trusts you.
While you’re talking with someone, nod and ask questions. This will make the person you’re talking to more interested.
When you lie, you should add a few embarrassing details. This will make your lie more credible.
If you ask someone something and that person hesitates in answering your question, you should stay silent for a few seconds. Usually, people tend to start talking when you do this.
I’ve talked to you about the Zeigarnik effect in another post. It explains that people tend to remember incomplete processes easier than complete ones. So, if you can’t remember a song, repeat a verse or a combination of words you remember until you remember the hole song.
If you ask someone for help and they ask you to do something for them in return instead of a thank you, you should say no.
Gum helps you cope with stressful situations. Chew gum when you have an exam or when you’re in a situation that stresses you out.
When you’re in the middle of a discussion, pay attention to people’s legs. If their feet are directed towards you, it means that the person is interested in what you have to say. If their feet face something else, they are probably waiting for the conversation to end.
If you show that you’re happy to see someone, they will likely respond with the same happiness.
If you have problems with remembering names, try this: when you encounter someone, try saying “Hello, X!”, or “How are you, Y?”. This way you’ll memorize their names easier.
While you’re talking with someone, smile and maintain eye contact. This will make people be open with you.
Your physiological thought is admirable. Very helpful. thanks for sharing your nice blog.
very interesting these tips to try to understand some human actions, just as you point out, we are so complex but we will continue to seek to understand each other more and more.
from now on I will have gum in my bag, enough on Monday. ..
thanks for the recommendations @jwolf I will write down several
This fact are real and normal evidence with human nature.Humans are dynamic
7 Number is very important
Most of the fact the listed here are true. Most times we just have to pay attention to notice them.
Thanks for sharing @jwolf
Excellent! many of the psychological facts that you describe are part of what we call communicatively: body language. I would like to recommend "the language of Allan Pease's body".
With respect to the chewing gum recommendation, it is so true that Sir Alex Ferguson, former technical director of the English football team, Manchester United, was medically recommended to chew gum to manage stress after he was hospitalized for tachycardia and was branded with a step marker.
Thank you for such an interesting post friend @jwolf. Greetings.
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I'm going to upvote this post, it's unique and true, the truth is we all know all these even though we don't know the meaning of these expressions /gestures, we come across them. This is so nice. Well done
Thanks for the post. Very educational. In my case 11 is certainly going to help. I am terrible in remembering names :)
Wow! This is awesome, I learnt something new today.. Thanks for sharing
I like 7th point .because it shows selfishness of people who helping to get help instead thanks .
Love your post man .thanks
great signs to follow next time i will take care of it bro thanks for sharing
Some of them I could connect with . Lol !! I should make my Lie more credible so that my brother would believe what I say. Simple but as good as the points of the book "How to win friends and Influence people " , but those are the psychological ways to deal with the people and these sounds like psychological ways to study the people, Really I loved that book . Thanks for making things in catalogue form. Have a good day bro :)
Everyone should master number 3, Sometimes in life you have to lie for the greater good (whatever that is), adding embarrassing details makes it a lot more credible.
Also adhere to number 7, usually people are selfish and will take advantage of your desperation, don’t let them. If it doesn’t work your way it isn’t the end of your world, unless you are dying. Try finding a new way work.
just got to learn how to lie hahah interesting
these are the psychological tricks to remember in mind great post thanks for sharing it
Thanks ,you write very good