sometimes, I do ask myself when I'm about doing something for someone most especially if that person have wrong me. But I later realised that all we ever had was giving to us free even thought we had thought, I do work for it. How about those that toil day and night with little or nothing to show for it. Didn't they too work?
We should be grateful and be willing to assist with good heart whether we receive help or not. And I will say there is no way you will never for once receive help. It might not just come from people we looked unto but all I know is that helper always shows, one way or the other.