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And I enjoyed your post, thank you for being so candid. Looks like we are about five years ahead of you guys and have gone through many of the same things. It's hard and gets harder as the routine sets in. Parenting can be summed up as "No said it would be easy, no one said it would be this hard." Flip side is, until you become a parent you haven't really lived. So there is that. Best of luck!