The act of giving a shit can be one of the hardest and least rewarding behaviors.
Excuse me? You're about to get hit by a bus. "Don't tell me how to walk and where!" Splat.
But I don't think those naysayer types are giving a shit when attempting to protect one from something that won't hurt to try. It's their own fear of failure, I think. They don't want others to go through that pain. But all that will ever lead to is a world of nothingness, where nothing gets done.
LOL! I'm just trying to sound smart.