The name you have on your certificate is not important if you have "intergrity crisis" it's is very vital that you take control of that part of you that is hidden from what people feel or think about you. For it is worst "character " that can make someone underachieve.
In the world of great achievers only those who understand early their weaknesses and the strength of their weaknesses make it through all life's difficulties . Your ability to understand your weakness will help you to work in the direction of your strength of character.
Successful people don't just jump at any given opportunity they first of all access their strengths and weaknesses and the strength in their weaknesses knowing this gives you an insight on whatever goal you are chasing, it tells you if you will be successful if you chase that particular goal .
ALWAYS TELL YOURSELF THE TRUTH!!
Many of us do not tell ourselves the truth, and why we live in denial. There is a level of truth you need to tell yourself early in life so as to prevent and end further mistakes in future. Avoid playing the "blame game" and tell yourself the truth and take responsibility of your life and actions that's one way of being your own person.
ALWAYS THINK BIG!!
Thinking small is one of the worst weakness identified by entrepreneurs . People have allowed yesterday lost and disappointments to kill the hopes of today and reclined into self-pity thoughts that make slowly generate into mental issues .
The tendency for a lot of people to think small means there's much less competition than you think for a very rewarding career. So far as success is concerned, people are not measured in inches, or academic degrees, or family background, they are measured by the size of their thinking. How big we think determines the size of our accomplishments.
If you are going to win all your wars in the race of life, then, you must build in the area of your strength while you keep screening eyes on your weakness. You detractors are always on the prowl looking for loopholes in your area of weakness to exploit it.
Always be positive and never wallow in self-pity, don't let challenges get the best of you , push yourself and be the best you can be and the sky will be your starting point. @pangoli @jamesub