Dear steemit friends,
Today I would like to share my experience of being alone. I have had good situations and bad situations in the passed of my life and I noticed that the only one person who can help me to walked through every situations is myself, my soul. Sometimes I talked with friends, but it didn't help much, they always made me confuse instead of understanding me. Now I know secrets of life and I have to learn more. I will improve myself everyday. I had known that self-talk is very important to make yourself confident, stronger, succeed and of course you have to be positive.
Life is 10% what happen to you and 90% how to react to it.
Being alone is an opportunity to improve yourself in every area of your life, without anyone bothering you. Your're number on asset is time and now you have a lot of it. And you can use this time to better yourself. You have time to take care of your body, exercise, eat the right food, Meditate, listen to the audio books. While you're doing this, you're bettering yourself and taking yourself to a higher understanding of life, yourself and other people. And when you take yourself to the next level in life. Your next friends and your next partner will be there also. You will end up with better friends and a better partner. But if you jump around from friendship to friendship and partner to partner, you will just end up getting the same thing, the same results because you haven't done or learned anything different. If you want something different, you have to do something different. So if you are alone. Congratulations! This is the time you can become the best version of yourself. You have time to do all the things you've always wanted to do and you have time to try new things. Think of yourself as another person that you can love. All that love that you want to give to somebody else, you can now give to yourself. You can take yourself on dates. You can surprise yourself by trying new things that you never thought you would have done and you might find that you like it. I found that is the best time that I make the most improvement of my life. I becoming my best friend and I enjoy being alone.
" If you can make friends with yourself, you'll never be lonely "
If you are being alone right now. I hope you can find that within yourself the ability to enjoy being alone and enjoy your own company. Because if you don't enjoy your own company, how do you expect other people to enjoy your company as well?
I hope you enjoy reading my article. Thank you for visiting, upvote, comment and resteem. I wish you all the best. @rosethiyada
Really great impressions @rosethiyada & greetings from Germany!
Thank you @future24. Oh I like Germany. I have been to a few cities in Germany, Hamburg, Berlin and Munich. It was really nice trip.
Very good 👍👍👍👍
Thank you.
There is substantial difference between being alone and being lonely. Thank your for your post, I found it helpful. I'm during preparation for spending 3months with myself only on Camino de Santiago.
Thank you for your comment. I hope you enjoy your great time in Camino de Santiago.
i was in a confusion whether being alone could help oneself improve the understanding of life or not? I would definitely try being alone in the Himalayas and meditating in the nature with the mountains. Regards from Nepal!!!
Lol you don't need to go to Himalayas. You should learn about subconscious mind and how the brain work. Then you will understand how to control yourself, your mood. I hope you are the best. Thank you for commenting friend.
haha!!! Thank you for the suggestions!!