There are two ways to think if you want to be a successful or not. Henry Ford said it correctly "Whether you think you can or think you can't you are right." 
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Ultimately, the I CAN'T people want you to fail and they are willing to do anything to sabotage your dreams or goals. The I CAN people want you to succeed. They want you to be as good or better than them. I found this out right here on Steem. I posted my introduction and I have two or three followers because they want me to succeed. They helped me understand how to make quality posts and the most important thing they gave me ENCOURAGMENT to keep going. To me that is what success is. If I am successful it just gives the next person hope and encouragement to be successful.
KEEP READING and have a successful, happy, wonderful, and exciting time.
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