I empathize with the sentiment. It could be so different. But then again, the whole world could be completely different if humans behaved the way you promote here. From my pessimistic perspective, I don't see that happening. A middle class existence is no longer supported, nor does it seem to be an existence desired. Even though a healthy middle class is essential to a flourishing ecosystem, from SteemIt to Nations, to the World. Perhaps that understanding will come around again in time, and being middle class with standards and morals will be respected over personal gain at the expense of society. Perhaps. Steem also has potential to increase exponentially in value, perhaps getting you back on track for your monetary goals.
For now...
" Now of course, many of my comments are from people who do actually engage with the content and I thank them."
...these are the reasons you should continue doing what you do. As long as the needs of your family are being met.
My monetary goals are Steem goals. Earning more money isn't the thing, having more distribution power when it is going to matter is.