You simply love your daughter too much.
Its how every parent should be.
Its hard to point out one thing out of all what you said because eveything is of prime importance. When I am going to be a parent I am going to let my child be the best as you said above too.
I find the contrasts and conflicts interesting as people speak of freedom yet act like dictators, talk of charity while behaving miserly. It seems that finding the line of best fit between what is best now and what is best in the future is difficult. Perhaps it shouldn't be difficult at all, perhaps the pathway forward should actually be straight unconflicted. I didn't say easy.
you are doing a great job taking care of her future most of people I know dont care much about the future of kids, or may be its the difference where I live.
You did well for her I want to do atleast near to what you did if not equal to you - when I am going to be a parent!
Thanks for sharing @tarazkp