“so they shouldn't wait for that one big dick to jerk”
Same in life.
I just thought about a mortgage lender client that has lost business, even though he was made the official lender of a large development by the developer. The sales people don’t want to give him any more business because he’s a dick to them.
Sounds fair to me, which is why people should really work on their attitudes, especially in situations where negative ones aren't warranted.