Yes, I agree. It is logical and natural. If I go to any event where there are habitues, it will be proper to first listen to what these habitues say. Then quite logically and correctly to try to understand their ideas and try to develop them. It is wise. It is unwise to try to climb on the podium and start to broadcast your theme.
I'm not saying now that we should adapt to others and to abandon our own vision. No. I mean, if you come as a guest, as a novice, it is important to try to harmoniously fit in the space, and not to blow it up with revolutionary ideas.
Thank you for your thoughts, @najoh, they are useful.
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