One morning on a sunny day, amid the silence of the township. I see a lot of children play with fun, laugh freely, and creativity. Indeed some of their creativity does not contaminate their body and clothes.
In the middle of the preoccupation, from inside the house precisely in front of my house, there was a familiar shouting voice. She is the mother of one of the children who played it.
"Go home you" !!! while running toward his son. The child who was laughing merrily and creativity, finally stalled his laughter, changing anxiety that hit. From the creative hands, the clothes have been dirty, splattered mud. Funny how so. But this is not fun for the mother.
With a bit hard the mother hit and cursed the child with words full of humiliation and demeaning children. Coupled with the wrong place, that is in public, perfect the shame that the child gets.
Regardless of the surroundings, the mother hit and cursed the child. "Have been told do not play dirty"
Dear Mother, sometimes the above case examples are examples of cases that often occur around us, is not it?
A true case is sometimes regarded as a natural thing in educating children. Which is the opinion of fairness is often make us smug when being rebuked and given advice by others with the saying, "it's up to me dong, my own children" "do not interfere with my family problems".
O mother who is still impatient with her funny child, maybe the child is born from your womb, but he is also the man who needs to be justice for what he did.
Do you know that your attitude will backfire in the future? Your arrogant, arrogant attitude towards your child repeatedly, has the potential to form a dull and moody mindset in the child. a mindset and a belief that, the path of violence and humiliation is the best model in treating others.
Furthermore, children who often get harsh treatment with abuse directed to the child, finally make the child record the insults that you say repeatedly against him. From the recording in the child's brain, finally forming a belief in his subconscious that he is indeed what kind of child you are giving him. The "stupid", "useless", "bad boy", "lazy kid" creations, and all the zoo phrases that sometimes accompany it have the potential to become reality in their lives.
And many more bad effects are caused, whether from a religious point of view, as well as from the standpoint of psychology itself.
The Impact Of Cursing Children
If in the end, he becomes a real fool how? if he becomes a lazy and naughty child how real? Sure your behavior blames the teacher in the school precisely. Convinced of a cursory assumption about a child's teacher who can not guide her? or you blame the child's peers who influenced him? or perhaps your child's peers also get similar treatment from their parents. That's the life cycle. A wrong cycle is sometimes considered to be "natural".
If your child's incident has turned into what you are describing, then you are aware. Be grateful if conscious. it actually even blames other people and the environment, it's so troublesome. That's called mah look for enemy dong.
O mother, let us both introspection ourselves, and maybe this is also at the same time for writers to be more able to control themselves later and cooperate with the wife in the face of children. Firmly it should, but it does not mean mixing contempt in it. Remember what you say is a prayer. Mother or parents love to pray for bad for their children.
Because children, are the next generation of families, nations, and people for that, do the best you can to do with the wisdom without humiliation. If this has been done, may the future of our children become a child that is useful for the whole of nature.
best Regard @h4f