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Do you have any regrets or have you accepted it as what it was at the time?

No real significant regrets, one person I never trusted ever again and I made sure he new it. For a long time since my employer was also a large part of the reason, I only did my job, nothing above or beyond what my job was for the next ten years. I don't even regret that, it was not easy to forgive my employer but I did eventually, the individual that set it up to where I could not attend, no forgiveness none given even though he repeatedly asked for it, I saw it then and still do as a completely irresponsible act on his part. He eventually transferred, whether it was because of me or not I really did not care.