I think it’s a difficult subject. All parents try to do the best they can. We have lots of information and choices that they might not have had. Maybe they would have done it differently if they’d know another way, or maybe not!
I do know that by making the choices I do for my children, I can heal the problems in my own childhood. I don’t feel sad that I didn’t get a different childhood, that would have changed who I am now and the life I have, but seeing how I can make a better life for my children is the best!