Our life is not about winning or losing, but always seeking to evolve. There are cycles that must come to an end, it's not worth fighting for something that's gone and there's no way to go back to the way it was before, everything changes over time.
When life seems to cause us pain, it means that we are evolving, if we are prepared to overcome the challenges that arise as the days go by, and don't think that life will become easier.
Evolution happens when we are looking for alternatives to improve. If it went wrong the way you did, you will surely correct it and do everything differently.
There is no point in acquiring experience and in the end not evolving, evolution must be part of the whole process.
Only with time will we understand the whole process we need to go through to get where we are, and we will be grateful for the steps we were forced to go through, because everything that causes us pain brings us closer to the next level.
Nobody is the same person they were yesterday, in one way or another we grow, evolve, acquire experiences and see the values of life in a new way as the days go by.

Indeed life is not about winning or losing but what this processes brings out of us. As long as we're towards the fullness of ourselves, living then makes sense
Definitely our approach to life issues is very important and vital,so that is why it is important that will pay more attention to life and it happineings on most occasions
yes sometimes it is our ego and our desire to copy other success which make us think and pursue the winner, while it was all about going trough it, and be better everytime..