The topic of our research project was hypertension.It was very simple,"It will hardly take a few days to collect and compile data",I thought.Initially I didn't find it much interesting.I and my friend started the spade work with data collection.With every passing day,my interest in the topic multiplied.Every face I met was an eye-opener.Every face
was a story.
The first women I met was not hypertensive and after that almost every second woman I met was hypertensive.The very last question in our questionnaire was " Are you suffering from any misery or stress".The answers were like following.
"I am a divorcee.He left me because of no good reason.He used to beat me.He used to abuse me in front of my three little children.Three years back he threw me out of his house.
Since then i am living with my parents .I feel myself a burden".Another answer was,"I am a widow.I have five children.We hardly get a meal every day.My husband was a cancer patient,I spent everything to get him a good treatment but to no avail and subsequently he passed away".Third woman said"I am sixty years old,I have been abandoned by my children, they don't respect me,and no one cares for me".Another answer was "my son was killed by someone for the reasons best known to the barbaric murders.Since then I am hypertensive".
Majority of the women were hypertensive because their husbands were ill,jobless or had married some other woman.I went for data collection but at the end of the day I realized how blessed I am !Not only I myself but how blessed are my friends and colleagues.We often complain of electricity,unhygienic environment and poor government policies.We react to very tiny little issues.We keep on discussing brands and politics but after spending a day at hospital with these women I felt ashamed of myself and all those who complain in front of Allah for trivial issues.We never realize the worth of Allah's blessing upon us till the time we come across those who are deprived of their basic needs,who weep for a piece of bread,for a piece of cloth and for day of health.
Yes you are right there are alot of women that suffers alot and by the grace of GOD we are better :)
I totally agree with you @barbie.doll. We often times forget how lucky we are and we should be grateful that we are not in the same situation as they are. You can see it everywhere because they are used to it they don't value it. Sometimes we need to see these things in the perspective of others see and see their situation. That is the value of steemit also. Sometimes steemit is like theraphy. We often times complain about trivial stuff it bothers us it affects us to the point of anger. But when I read articles of steemit how some other people have it worse that I am I feel bad for them then I realize my problem is nothing compared to them then I feel both glad that I am not situation but it also saddens me because they have that problem.
hey @ankarlie I send you friend request on Discord
please accept it :)
I will sister I'll just fixed my application i think it is infected by a virus slows down my laptop a whole lot every time i use it
Oh! okie you are so sweet, I hope you've fixed any problem on laptop
we never know what we have or appreciate the fact that we sleep and wake up to a new day...Your story might not be as gory as that of the next person around
very inspirational story @barbie.doll agree with you lot of humanity that passe's through that condition, I pray for that GOD will help us and blessed them!
why women are often hurt and many women who become victims of men's selfishness, I as a woman very sad to see this all