Pregnancy can make a woman's feelings more sensitive, such as irritability and irritability. Therefore, do not say things that can damage his mood.

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Feelings of sensitive pregnant women can be caused by changes in hormone levels that can affect levels of neurotransmitters, brain chemicals that regulate mood.
In addition, physical stress factors, fatigue, and changes in metabolism can also be the cause.

So, it is advisable to maintain your words while dealing with pregnant women, especially those who are undergoing the first trimester of pregnancy and the final trimester.
In the trimester, her feelings can become more sensitive. Some of your words may sound normal, but they can have different meanings if they reach the ears of pregnant women whose moods are fluctuating.

Here are 9 types of conversation topics that are recommended not to be discussed with pregnant women:

Your body is very fat. Most women may be stressed enough to watch their body grow bigger during pregnancy.
So please, you don't add to the burden of his mind, damage his confidence and make him feel inferior by saying, "Your body is so fat" to him.

You better say that weight gain is normal during pregnancy, because it is needed for the development of the baby in the womb.

Your face is pale! If your face looks pale from exhaustion or doesn't use make-up, you don't need to say that.
Just understand the condition by not needing to discuss an appearance that can actually make him sad or feel bad. Or you can also say, "For the size of pregnant women, you are still much more beautiful, really."

Looks like your body is too thin. This sentence can emit the impression that you are commenting on the health of a baby in the womb who does not have enough nutrients because it is contained by a thin mother.

Are you pregnant again? Conceded, yeah? You might be surprised when you see a friend who has two bodies, even though his child is still a baby.
However, hold it to express your surprise. If it's true he conceded, he might be sad when he hears your words. Because he himself did not really expect the pregnancy but could not do anything.

It's better when you hear the news of her pregnancy, you tell her that having a child is a gift from God.

Pregnant women can't eat or drink this! Just keep in mind that the name of a pregnant woman must have checked with her doctor and one of the things she has consulted with a doctor is a food problem.

Do you plan to give your baby ASI? Actually this is not your business. Just trust him that he already knows what is best for his baby.

Giving birth is very painful, you know! Most women may be afraid of hearing the word birth.
So, do not overheat women who are pregnant with creepy stories when in the delivery room.
This can make him stressful and increase the burden of his mind with negative things about labor, which is not good for his pregnancy.

It's a good idea if you provide information or articles that discuss tips and tricks for delivery to him.

Your age is too old to get pregnant. You never know the reason why he was pregnant at that age.
Maybe he is not ready to be a parent or it might be difficult to get pregnant. So, avoid these words or chat that refers to the dangers of pregnancy in old age.
When pregnant at this age, he may already know the consequences and get information from the doctor.

What you can say to him is, "Wow, congratulations, soon you will become a mother.

Hah, you haven't given birth too? If he has passed the 9 month period but never gave birth, don't ask the question. Understand, in conditions like this he might be stressed because he also hasn't found any signs of birth.
So, when you haven't heard the news about his birth, but want to know the news, you can ask, "Hi, what are you doing?
Can I help you with something?
Via text message or telephone.

So, think carefully well before talking to pregnant women.