What Men Want We Are Sensitive From Her

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Men have their own secrets that they will not share with anyone. This is what men want you to know but too afraid to tell you.


by: Dwi Wulandari

Men are the same as women


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Men are the same as women, have their own secrets that they will not share with anyone, especially if they have been hurt in the past.

Remember, this is a difficult task for most men to express their feelings to women. Because they are afraid of being placed in the category of someone who is not manly enough.

Maybe they have seen the reaction of some women through their friends, so they don't dare to share their most intimate secrets with anyone. If you find yourself in a situation knowing something is wrong with him, maybe it is his little secret that he cannot share easily.

Men are also humans. You often place them to be strong all the time, become 'heroes' in relationships and not cry much or feel in general unless sympathetic to your feelings. However, you cannot do that. Men also have feelings. They may not always show it, but they have it.

Here are 5 things he wants you to know but are too afraid to tell you:

1. He also has fear


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Men, also like women, sometimes they feel scared. Maybe it's more everyday like darkness, or it could be because of financial problems. They are afraid but will not admit it. Fear appears in different ways for different individuals.

2. He doesn't always know what to do


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Men don't always have all the answers. As a woman, you tend to look at people in your life to always think of you all the time. However, they are also human. They don't have all the answers to your questions.

A man may be too afraid to tell you when he doesn't have the answer. Especially if you are looking for him to solve every problem.

3. He cries.


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Man crying. This is a fact. They may not always do it in front of others. In society, this is seen as a sign of weakness, so they tend to keep it for themselves.

However, as a woman, it is important to know that men sometimes cry too. They may not do it as often as women, but it does. As a man, maybe this is not something he wants to admit, so be gentle with that information when you find out.

4. He has several weaknesses in his own body


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Just like you, you must have some weaknesses in the body, as well as him. You might not like your thighs, and he might have some problems with his chest.

Men are not immune to problems of self-esteem, even though they always deny it. This is seen as a weakness. So, every time one of the weaknesses comes out, it's important to support him and increase his pride by telling him how handsome he is.

5. He cares about what you think about him


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You mean something to him, so of course, he cares about what you think about him.

Man wonders what other humans think about him. That doesn't mean you have low self-esteem or are too concerned about other people's opinions. This means you are normal, and that's how he is. However, he may never admit it to you or anyone else.

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