Break up’s are hard to do. But sometimes staying broken up can be just as hard. It’s difficult when there’s just this person across town that knows exactly what you like, and has done it time after time.
Dating apps have all the charm and personality of a Japanese blowjob robot, and meeting people in bars can be both expensive and humiliating.
So once the initial heartbreak, bad feelings and anger subsides, it’s hard not to think that maybe it wouldn’t be so bad to fire a casually flirtatious text to the person that just became your ex…
But should you?
It’s hard to say what the numbers are on long term relationships that have stood the test of time, after a short break followed by a hook-up and resulted in reconciliation, but I imagine the numbers are low. But then again, they say, “the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.” So what if the person you get under is the one you’re trying to get over in the first place?
When you Google, “should I text my ex” the answer is always the same: don’t. But it’s hard to stare into the void of unknown sexual encounters and not just want one more time around the bet.
So what do you think? Snap you iPhone in half before texting your ex? Or wash your sheets and invite them over for a shame stroll down memory lane.
You tell me.
No seriously, do I press send or not?
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If right after you cum you just want them to leave...its probably best not to text them again
I this is one of the great and important issue of today life that is breakup I think this is really a bad acitivity in which we break a great relationship in just a seconds thanks @writesbackwards for this authentic post & great words about breakup keep it up steemit need peoples like you my friend.
Yeah, you're right, something great can end so quickly now. But then again with smartphones, you can reignite it so quickly with a test without actually solving the original issue. And back and forth again.
Nope, Don't text your ex. If it was a true relation then it would have never be as "ex" so move on you'll have a better one. Recently been through a breakup of very very strong relationship of few long long years... But time defines the true them and thats when your partner always finds flaws in you and try end it. So "DONT" :)
Good looking out. I know you're probably right, but as they say, "the mind is willing but the flesh is weak."
It's funny how we choose to text some exes and not some. I have a friend who is having friendly relationships (nothing beyond friendship) with two of her ex-boyfriends for years now. Actually now they all have kids of their own, but the funny thing is that the kids are best buddies too, because this friend made sure that the kids get to know each other from the day they were born.
The funniest part is none of the spouses know that my friend was involved with their husbands romantically. Neither do the children. This lady is very accomplished in life and has been able to carry on this facade for twenty some years.
I'm glad it's working out for your friend, but that definitely feels like playing with fire. I wouldn't be able to pull that off.
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Thankfully I have never been one to call an ex. When I'm done with someone, I'm done.
I respect your resolve. Wish I had it haha
Haha thanks!
I have to remember to start popping some popcorn before I read your posts. You always have something funny if not a bit edgy to read. Then I get to the comments and it is pure gold. You could do a curation post on the best comments that make no sense in relation to your posts. Sadly I live with my parents and have never had a girlfriend, so I can't comment on this.
Just kidding, I am happily married :) Great post though!
I recommend Sour Patch Kids to go with the popcorn. You have to mix the sweet with the savory. Glad you enjoy the post... and glad you're not alone in a basement. So how did you keep the marriage going?
Heavy BDSM, that is the key. 😁
Yeah but make sure you screw into a stud, or the Heavy BDSM, can come crashing down around you.
So. Many. Puns.
😂
Whatever addiciton you wanna get rid of, you can only do it if you quit.
If you want to really impress her (which means she ll let you hit her again), you better write a hand written(!) letter, where you tell her all the things you never t old her before. Show feelings, but: Be neither arrogant nor pathetic, and you have a good chance she might change her mind on you. Women love guys that are able to jump over their shadow actually.... whatever this means. :)
Sir in my opinion single person is more better then of relationship only fun no worries.
It's a good life it if you make it work. But sometimes a sure thing can be nice.
What the heck. I think if you can wipe clean your expectations about the relationship (and clean your sheets) - go into it with the idea you are just meeting each other's needs and having fun.
Made me think of the Naked Gun movie quote: Lt. Frank Drebin: "It's the same old story. Boy finds girl, boy loses girl, girl finds boy, boy forgets girl, boy remembers girl, girl dies in a tragic blimp accident over the Orange Bowl on New Year's Day."
hahaha fair point. And great pull on that quote.
And yeah, having fun is nice, but if you can get THEM to clean your sheets TOO, then you've really won, amiright?
100% right! [chest bump]
hahaha that goes, if one leaves a person is because things are wrong and things go wrong one away