SELF LOVE AND ITS IMPORTANCE. || EL AMOR PROPIO Y SU IMPORTANCIA

in Emotions & Feelings2 years ago (edited)

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Most time we put many things above us, work, school, and we just don't realize how hard we are on ourselves till we break down. funny how we think pushing ourselves off the limit without any appreciation of how far we've come can be claimed as self loved.

La mayoría de las veces ponemos muchas cosas por encima de nosotros, el trabajo, la escuela, y simplemente no nos damos cuenta de lo duros que somos con nosotros mismos hasta que nos derrumbamos. es curioso cómo pensamos que empujarnos a nosotros mismos fuera del límite sin ninguna apreciación de lo lejos que hemos llegado puede ser reclamado como auto-amado

Nothing is wrong with putting yourself first.
There's nothing wrong with making yourself a priority.

No hay nada malo en ponerse a sí mismo en primer lugar.
No hay nada malo en hacer de ti mismo una prioridad.

Having a concern for your wellbeing and happiness is allowed, it is called self-love.
It is an appreciation of oneself by actions that comes with physical, mental, and psychological growth. it paves the way to a high mental sense of not settling for less, it brings about taking care of your needs as a priority. It is a wide practice that comes with more benefits.

Preocuparse por tu bienestar y felicidad está permitido, se llama amor propio.
Es una apreciación de uno mismo por las acciones que viene con el crecimiento físico, mental y psicológico. allana el camino a un alto sentido mental de no conformarse con menos, trae el cuidado de sus necesidades como una prioridad. Es una práctica amplia que conlleva más beneficios.

As individual self-love is prone to having a different meaning to every one of us because we all have different ways of taking care of ourselves. To some is having access to a lot of healthy foods,to some is acquiring knowledge to never be looked at as mediocrity, to some is making themselves a priority, to some is being sincere to yourself, to some it is about giving the body rest when it is needed, to some is about words of encouragement to oneself when they feel depressed and to some is having good mental health. whichever way it is it is all about making good choices over oneself.

Como individuo, el amor propio tiende a tener un significado diferente para cada uno de nosotros porque todos tenemos diferentes maneras de cuidarnos. Para algunos es tener acceso a una gran cantidad de alimentos saludables, para algunos es adquirir conocimientos para nunca ser vistos como mediocres, para algunos es hacer de sí mismos una prioridad, para algunos es ser sincero con uno mismo, para algunos se trata de dar el cuerpo de descanso cuando se necesita, para algunos es acerca de las palabras de aliento a uno mismo cuando se sienten deprimidos y para algunos es tener una buena salud mental. de cualquier manera se trata de hacer buenas elecciones sobre uno mismo.

Having to figure out what self-love is for you is one aspect of practicing self-love.

Tener que averiguar qué es el amor propio para ti es un aspecto de la práctica del amor propio

HOW DO WE PRACTICE SELF-LOVE?|| CÓMO PRACTICAR EL AMOR PROPIO

PRIORITIZE NEED AND NOT WANT || PRIORIZAR LA NECESIDAD Y NO EL DESEO

By taking actions based on our needs we become blind to wants that might not be useful or hurt our self-love

Al tomar acciones basadas en nuestras necesidades nos volvemos ciegos a los deseos que podrían no ser útiles o dañar nuestro amor propio

SAY NO TO COMPARISON || DIGA NO A LA COMPARACIÓN

We all are built differently, comparing ourselves can be normal but have negative effects. There's no point in trying to move at another person's pace this brings about pushing oneself off-limits and eventually breaking down. what favors one can be of no favor to the other. rather focus on yourself and move at your own pace.

Todos estamos construidos de forma diferente, compararnos puede ser normal pero tiene efectos negativos. No tiene sentido tratar de avanzar al ritmo de otra persona, ya que esto hace que uno se salga de los límites y acabe rompiendo. lo que favorece a uno no puede favorecer al otro. es mejor centrarse en uno mismo y avanzar a su propio ritmo

ALLOW MISTAKES || PERMITIR ERRORES

Nobody is perfect, don't be too hard on yourself when you make mistakes rather learn from the mistake to grow.

Nadie es perfecto, no seas demasiado duro contigo mismo cuando cometas errores, más bien aprende del error para crecer.

PRIORITIZE YOUR HAPPINESS || PRIORIZA TU FELICIDAD

The state of mind, that comes with joy, fulfillment, and satisfaction is one major factor that helps self-love because it determines the mood, expression, and healthy lifestyle.

El estado de ánimo, que viene con la alegría, la realización y la satisfacción es un factor importante que ayuda al amor propio porque determina el estado de ánimo, la expresión y el estilo de vida saludable.

speak positive to yourself, appreciate yourself, take a break when it is needed. You are unique in your ways, there's nobody like you.

habla en positivo contigo mismo, apréciate, tómate un descanso cuando lo necesites eres único en tu forma de ser, no hay nadie como tú.

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Hello 🙋🏻‍♀️ @ijohnsen

Nice to read your post ✨

Definitely if we see our mistakes a lot and compare ourselves with others, self love will go down.

Sometimes we can do this because this is what we have learned since we were children. "You should be like your brother" "You should be like xx person". 😥

How you say that's why it's good to prioritize some things in us to increase that love 💗

Thanks for your post 🤗

Thank you for dropping by
I'm glad you could see the importance of self love in the post

By the way @ijohnsen , we noticed that you can improve the credits that need to be identified in the images that are not of your property. Although you are writing the page from where you took them, the specific address should be placed to find them. This facilitates the work of the curators, and prevents you from being flagged for plagiarism. The newbies guide is a very good one. We recommend it.😉

We suggest you can apply this suggestion even in this post itself.👍

Best regards.🌟

@hive-102879 been trying to fix in the location but couldn't, the was made by me using pixellab and it has no link
If you have any idea how I can get I would mind here

If the image is created by you using an app, what you have to do is to say that you are the creator @ijohnsen

Your post says: "image made in pixellab". Then you can write "Image made by me in pixellab". That way it is clear that it is your creation. With that, you don't need to put a link.😎

Thanks for taking this font issue seriously. You can count on our support. We all learn from others on this platform.😉

I made an adjustment.
I hope it clear now and thank you for the time and correction

Please see my comment down below @hive-102879 in reference to this image.

@chosenfingers I know you would like to share your view on topics like this
Why not give it a try

This is a good one from you. Point noted and of course, taken.

Those that have low self-esteem usually find themselves downgrading everything about their being. This may look like a minor issue but it gets more serious overtime. Self-love is important and should not be taken for granted.

Self love is important and should not be taken for granted.

You've just nailed it fam.
That's the point.

Thank you for dropping by.

Interesante tú propuesta de lo que es el Amor Propio.
Cada uno lo asume de acuerdo a sus necesidades.

Saludos

El amor del soltero es necesario y nunca debe darse por sentado. Gracias por pasar por aquí

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Yes of course. Self love is really important. Taking our time to heal and to grow is also essential.

#Dreemport

That the spirit.

Excellent thought provoking post, and I'm not sure how others feel about it, but I would think you should put the English together and the Spanish together as that is how I do it because the reader is distracted looking for the next English paragraph in this version lol. It doesn't matter in this subject matter, but if you are telling a ripping compelling story, then it can break the mood of the reader. ONLY a suggestion, as there is nothing wrong with the way you've written this, it's only a suggestion for maximum effect, and is only my opinion.

I want to restate what @hive-102879 has suggested to you two days ago, if you are using a recognizable image that does not belong to you, you definitely must source it, so that it clears you of using an image that does not belong to you. I found the location of the image, and yes, you do need to cite it, and it is still not done yet.

This post was obtained through Dreemport.

Thank you for the that I would definitely see to that.
And for the citing I tried but I couldn't I don't if you help drop the location ,I would definitely correct from my end.

I am getting that it has been used by a site, but has had the stock watermarks removed, as it is a watermarked owned image. The site I see it on without the watermark is https://www.sociople.com/how-to-love-ourselves-and-why/ and is dated December 15, 2021 so I am suspecting that they must have paid for it as there are no watermarks on it or used it illicitly. Then, the origin I believe is https://depositphotos.com/387816678/stock-illustration-romantic-print-design-self-care.html and the image is watermarked. So the only way to use it without the watermarks is paid or "trial" which is paid, or by screenshotting the one underneath that main download image and blowing it up as that image does not have the marks on it because when you click on it the correct way, it does come up watermarked. So, I would recommend you either pay the dollar and get a trial, then log it here as the source, or use another photo and remake it. It's strictly up to you, I advise not using it as a watermarked image because that is considered plagiarism.

Self love of course is important and should come first in my eyes. This is a thought provoking post.

Thank you for dropping by @tengolotodo

You are so very welcome!