Hola beautiful Ladies of Hive! Hope you are doing great. It's Saturday evening here in my side of the world and the gentle raindrops falling outside give me really good feelings :)
Anyway, here's my participation in this week's contest and I chose to answer the question: "If you are in a bad mood, do you prefer to be left alone or have someone to cheer you up?"
Years ago, I preferred to be left alone when I am not in a good mood because I didn't want to say things that I'd regret later so it was better for me to shut the door and keep myself away from others. But as the years passed by and I became more mature, things changed.
The good husband also learned how to deal with my mood swings and he can easily cheer me up when I am not at my best. I think we learned to grow better and we have adjusted ourselves to behave well when something tests our patience.
That's why I prefer him to cheer me up when I am feeling down.
What does he do? He does a lot of things like dancing some crazy dance moves, playing or strumming his own ribs like a guitar, and belting some of our favorite tunes, or he would just pull me up close to him and hug me tight and then swing me to a dance rhythm. By then, I'd have no choice but to burst into laughter, haha!
Sometimes, he would tickle me until I cannot hold it anymore and would end up giggling. Or at times when he observes I am in a bad disposition, he would intentionally tell me funny stories while trying his best to pretend that he doesn't know I am having a bad day. His comedic gestures easily make me laugh, LOL!
When he isn't around and I feel bored or something irritates me, I would just go out for a walk and the feelings will change quite immediately.
Adulting seems to have taught us to be light-hearted and have more fun. Since there are only the two of us in the house, it's best to be cheerful to each other. Otherwise, the house would be very sad when we let our bad moods get the upper hand.
I would like to invite my friend @Jane1289 to join this amazing #LadiesofHive community :)
Thank you @silversaver888 for this week's questions and to the Ladies of Hive admins for the chance for us to share our thoughts on the weekly topics being introduced. Salute to all!
I love that Farm Boy cheer up your mood, hehe I always like how you talk about the two of you. Have a great week, my dear!
Thank you, my friend hehe. Enjoy yours too :)
"I prefer him to cheer me up when I am feeling down."
Ah... it is good to have a husband you know you in and out!
Thanks for sharing, @ifarmgirl.
Good luck with the contest.
“A friend is one that knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still, gently allows you to grow.” – William Shakespeare
Thank you @silversaver888. I love the quote you shared, it is awesome when we find such a friend in our partners in life and become one to them too❤
Yes, indeed!
Keep smiling , @ifarmgirl 😄
Thank you for the invitation 😁
Pleasure's mine sis! Enjoy your weekend :)
Now that was a pleasant story. Sounds like your hubby is a great and funny guy.
There's no better gift, than to have a partner that not only loves you, but also understands you. Hang on to him, he's a winner in my book.
Time and maturity sure do help with sorting through those crumby days, life is short, leave those grumpy moods behind.
Have a blessed and happy day.
Thank you @farm-mom, he is indeed and it's great growing better with him gracefully.
And it's true, time and age do that and we want our days to be filled with mirth and great memories. Can't even remember when was the last time one of us became grumpy hehe.
Have a happy weekend :)
That’s beautifully told. Your small family sounds awesome
Thank you @itsostylish. We always try our best to be fun :)
I saw this. It sounded familiar. There is only one person in the world that I know calls her husband by that name. I had to check your username. What the heck? I ran to your profile, you have been here all this while, and we never met? Gosh.... It's a small world afterall.
Edit: and there is even a picture of you. Wow. For someone who doesn't fancy showing her face. Why did she change her mind all a sudden? You have me thinking about a lot. Gosh.
Haha! Oh my, Edy! You have been missing at the other side and you are here all along! Glad to see you here, I was wondering you might have been very occupied :)
For the photo, I hope it suits your imagination, lol! It's a part of adulting I guess, changing the mind for the better :)
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This is so sweet! Sounds like you two are perfect for each other! 😊
Thank you @thekittygirl :) We learned to be one for each other :)