Hello! my dear friends from Ladies of Hive, it is a pleasure to be able to participate again in initiative #56 and first of all, I want to congratulate last week's beautiful winners: @qwertychronicles, @blueeyes8960, @dora381, @missdonna, @playfulfoodie, women who are an example of constancy and good energy when it comes to inspiring us with their publications.
This time, Ladies of Hive invites us to answer one (or two) interesting questions in their initiative:
1️⃣ If you're in a bad mood, would you rather be left alone or have someone cheer you up?
I am one of those people who takes a long time to get angry or be in a very bad mood; my family and friends say I live up to the meaning of my name: "Alegria", however, sometimes my bad mood can transcend into a bad temper.
"Respect, Equity and Justice".
These are three values that I cherish and they are also the triggers for my mood to change, although I tolerate and can have a critical reasoning with whoever alters the unfolding of the situation, I can reach the point of not avoiding manifesting a different mood than usual.
"Loneliness or Company".
Once my bad temper comes to the surface, I prefer to go for a walk, sit and watch the mountain from the balcony of my room, think and accept that individuals are not equal, try to identify what I should learn from situations that are out of everyone's hands, reconsider options to maintain a pleasant atmosphere despite the differences and set my point of view on solid grounds, correct the mistakes I have had and of course, seek the sincere words to apologise if I have erred or hurt another (s) person (s).
I feel that I should not, out of respect for others, have company in difficult moments, unless it is strictly necessary, we can commit imprudences of the moment and once we release the words, they are like water: they cannot be put back in the container.
Meditation, exercise (even if only a little) and practising Yoga has helped me to have more tolerance, it must be the effect of the happiness hormones.
2️⃣ Would you ever take back someone who cheated?
My definition of "cheating", is that "action that in a disloyal way a person can achieve a goal". Sometimes we meet people who commit these types of acts but we don't notice them immediately, in fact we may never know about the action.
Unfortunately, there are people whose "leitmotiv" is to get in, get out and involve innocent people in a chain of deceit that can harm them in different ways.
On one occasion a very "friendly" person of a colleague asked him to carry a box from one place to another, because he had no time, my colleague kindly accepted and when he was about to move the box, the narcotics canine reacted... you can imagine the rest of the story.
Life takes many turns and we can fall into the arms of temptation to get something in a "simpler" way, so we have to have the necessary judgment to reject proposals that can put us in danger; yes, the "trap" at all levels has risks even though it is disguised as benefits.
Good judgement, assessing the situation and taking a stand are key factors in determining whether or not to continue a friendship; regaining trust once it has been fractured is very difficult.
I wish you a great week, God be with you every step of the way and may you achieve all your goals.
For this week I invite my friend @zhanavic69 to join this initiative.
Stay healthy, take care of yourselves and your families; we love you:
¡Hola!, ¡Hola! mis queridas amigas de Ladies of Hive, es un placer poder volver a participar en la iniciativa # 56 y primero que nada, quiero darle mis felicitaciones a las bellas ganadoras de la semana pasada: @qwertychronicles, @blueeyes8960, @dora381, @missdonna, @playfulfoodie, mujeres que son ejemplo de constancia y buena energía a la hora de inspirarnos con sus publicaciones.
En ésta oportunidad, Ladies of Hive nos invita a responder una (o dos) interrogantes interesantes en su iniciativa:
1️⃣ Si estás de mal humor, ¿prefieres que te dejen solo o que alguien te anime?
Soy de las personas que tarda mucho para enojarse o estar de muy mal humor; mi familia y amigos dicen que le hago honor a significado de mi nombre: "Alegría", sin embargo, en ocasiones mi mal humor puede trascender al mal genio.
"Respeto, Equidad y Justicia"
Son tres valores que aprecio y también son los detonantes para que mi humor cambie, a pesar que tolero y puedo tener un razonamiento critico con quien altere el desenvolvimiento de la situación, puedo llegar al punto de no evitar manifestar un estado de ánimo diferente al usual.
"Soledad o Compañía"
Una vez que mi mal genio sale a relucir, prefiero salir a caminar, sentarme a observar la montaña que se ve desde el balcón de mi habitación, pensar y aceptar que los individuos no somos iguales, tratar de identificar lo que debo aprender de situaciones que se escapan de las manos de todos, reconsiderar opciones para mantener un ambiente agradable a pesar de las diferencias y fijar mi punto de vista con bases sólidas, corregir los errores que he tenido y por supuesto, buscar las palabras sinceras que permitan pedir disculpas en caso de haber errado o herido a otra(as) personas.
Siento que no debo, por respeto a otros, tener compañía en momentos difíciles, a menos que sea estrictamente necesario, podemos cometer imprudencias propias del momento y una vez que soltamos las palabras, son como el agua: no se puede volver a colocar en el recipiente.
La meditación, el ejercicio (aunque sea poco) y practicar Yoga, me ha ayudado a tener mayor tolerancia, debe ser por el efecto de las hormonas de la felicidad.
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2️⃣ ¿Alguna vez recuperarías a alguien que hizo trampa?
Mi definición de "trampa", es aquella "acción que de manera desleal una persona puede conseguir un objetivo". En ocasiones conocemos personas que cometen estos tipos de actos pero que no nos damos cuenta de manera inmediata, de hecho es posible que nunca nos enteremos de la acción.
Lamentablemente, hay personas que es su "leitmotiv", viven para entrar, salir e involucrar a personas inocentes en una cadena de engaño que puede perjudicar de diferentes maneras.
En una oportunidad una persona muy "amiga" de un colega, le pidió el favor de llevar una caja de un sitio a otro, porque no tenía tiempo, mi colega amablemente aceptó y cuando se disponía a trasladar la caja, el canino de estupefacientes reaccionó... se podrán imaginar el resto de la historia.
La vida da muchas vueltas y podemos caer en los brazos de la tentación para conseguir algo de una manera "mas sencilla", por lo que tenemos que contar con el juicio necesario para rechazar propuestas que pueden ponernos en peligro; si, la "trampa" en todos sus niveles tienen riesgos a pesar que se quiera disfrazar con beneficios.
El buen juicio, evaluar la situación y fijar posición son factores claves para determinar continuar o no una amistad; recuperar la confianza una vez fracturada es muy difícil.
Deseo que tengan una excelente semana, que Dios les acompañe en cada paso y que logren todos sus objetivos.
para esta semana invito a participar a mi amiga @zhanavic69 para que se una a esta iniciativa.
Manténganse a con salud, cuídense y cuidaran de sus familias; se les quiere:
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Indeed, regaining trust once it has been fractured is very difficult.
Thanks for sharing, @leticiapereira.
Good luck with the contest.
“Friendship is delicate as a glass, once broken it can be fixed but there will always be cracks.” — WaqarWaqar Ahmed
De hecho, recuperar la confianza una vez que se ha fracturado es muy difícil.
Gracias por compartir, @leticiapereira.
Buena suerte con el concurso.
"La amistad es delicada como un vidrio, una vez rota se puede arreglar, pero siempre habrá grietas". – WaqarWaqar Ahmed
Valoro mucho la amistad, es el mas precioso regalo de vida: mis amigos son parte de mi familia..!!
!Gracias por el apoyo y las bonitas palabras! @silversaver888
I value friendship very much, it is the most precious gift of life: my friends are part of my family!!!!
Thanks for the support and the kind words! @silversaver888
Wonderful words, @leticiapereira!
Yes, friends are part of you, and thus, the family!
Keep on smiling 😀
Thank you for sharing! Take care and have a good week!
You took the cheating question to another level
More than just your partner in life but just people in general
It's terrible that someone could have put your friend in such a terrible situation, I hope he didn't get away with it.
Thank you for sharing your story @leticiapereira
This is worth reading Miss @leticiapereira and upon reading this, I learned 3 values that you highlighted on dealing with our mood swings or temper.
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