Foreword
In her flowing but sleeveless red dress, she elegantly carried herself into the best and most popular eatery in town, she glanced from a distance and there her eyes met her prince charming. We must end together, she said to herself, she couldn't help but keep blushing at the muscular masculine figure in front of her, what a right choice that it.
The young guy kept smiling in just a way that his perfect, sparkling dentition caught her attention, he was on his best looks and wouldn't have anything spoil it not even his financial crisis, with some pounds he was sure to make her day memorable, of course he has always yearned for a day such as this.
With the above setting, I know your minds must have possibly drifted to somewhere. Yes a date, a date could possibly be said to be a romantic outing or meeting with an admirer or maybe a potential lover. Actually, there are certain attitudes that may ruin our dates which we would never want to happen. Let's take a look at the do's and dont's for a successful date
1. Dress elegantly: It is said that "good appearance is a letter of commendation", a lady is addressed by the way she dresses, we do not want to drag too much attention to ourselves by appearing in the most expensive outfits and jewelries, it might send a bad impression. Rather, a simple, neat and we'll combined colored dresses are good to go, don't forget a deodorant.
2. Ask questions: meeting a guy for the first time doesn't mean one should make the date boring, though I would want to be at my best behavior, I need to speak up, ask questions. Crack funny jokes and make the environment lovely as it were to be.
3. Limit your screen time: I know most of us here are addicted to our devices and may just focus on our phones while a date is ongoing, gosh that sounds so awkward. It creates no sense of belonging and doesn't make any sense. Brace up, drop your device and concentrate with the being in front of you.
4. Do not speak too much about yourself:Yeah, high class ladies who are very conscious of themselves might end up falling victims to that. When on a date endeavor to be interactive, cover a wide range of subjects and don't speak too good of yourself, the other party might end up feeling worthless. Remember, no pretence
5. Maintain good sense of humor: It is well understood that most people feel insecure in public places, others are reserved while others shy away. These are normal yunno but you don't have to let that revolve around you, interact well, maintain good eye contact, smile at intervals and you're good to go
After-word
Great dates are good memories to remember, why not try out the above suggestions and you'll be proud you did. If it goes well,I wouldn't hesitate to get my own wedding invitation card, I'm not missing out on the mouthwatering meals of course.
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You just reminded what that day looked like. Am talking about 25 years ago. Infact, it is a day you will never forget. The memory is always in front of you. Date, a day to remember.
Does that mean it wasn't memorable?
It memorable
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I must say, your intro is so catchy. You held my attention for a time, in fact as I read through the first paragraph, my mind raced to a date. You did well in your fiction work.
You have nail it all my dear friend, on my next outing, I will know what to do
Meh. I am definitely not someone who enjoys dates or even going on them. The thought of leaving my house for some guy gives me the hibbie-jibbie. Still, I can't help but agree with your points. We all fall victim of always wanting to talk about our selves. It is awful, I know.
You are on point dear I love what you just said most especially the question aspect, it's good to ask your date question but not too much so he or she won't see you as talkative.
Every ladies should know the basics. Well, not just us but of course, the opposite sex. I love the points you discussed there.
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My dear all what you said is true a good date can never be forgeted most especially when you are on the right track.
I wish ladies of this sort are many in my days, just like you said some ladies make the outing just awkward by not paying attention to the person in her front. Hope ladies learn fast
LOOVE the way you pulled me in right away with that story 😊
Like I was there and I didn't want it to end. Very creative and then your date points are Great advices and I agree with you.
I enjoyed this alot, Thank you for sharing and have a wonderful week. 💞
And thanks for being caught in between the fiction 🤣
Do have a wonderful week ahead tooo