but I do work to life not the other way around.
It is about meaning. Some find meaning in what they do (weirdly in some cases).
Our financial needs dictate our job for the most part. Many can't downscale, without having to give up things they care about. So, working is the only way to meet needs.
I was willing to accept a same job at another company for a lower paycheck but at the end I am earning just as much, just with less responsibility.
Sounds good!