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RE: Passive Agents

in Reflections11 hours ago

I’d say this one feels lighter.

For sure it does and likely is. Which is why so many say "I was born this way" rather than I can change my future self by doing different now.

I made a mental note for the future, and we move on.

Yeah - this is the thing. Disagreements and even upsets are fine. Learn and move on. But avoidance of conversations "just in case" doesn't make sense, because it becomes tiptoeing around a minefield.

If there’s no willingness, then maybe the connection was never really there to begin with?

Likely. Why try to force a situation that someone doesn't want. It is like chasing a partner who has no interest in you.