Regret is a final realisation of what is right.
Choice is the right, power or opportunity to choose and decide between two or more options.
Our everyday life is full of choices. Where I'm today is a function of my choices till date.
Every of our choice always come with responsibilities and consequences, However
No one can escape making choices daily, the questions is are you making the right or wrong choices.
Obviously wrong choice makes one vulnerable to danger.
Now! The major factor that influences right choices we make is the quantity and quality of information and understanding we are exposed to..
To make decision means to cut off somethings. So! How do i know what to cut off at a particular time and situation?
Choices decided can either be regrettable or rejoicable.
Why do we make many wrong choices
From my own little experience i can say
Ignorance: Nobody can be outstanding without understanding. I have made many choices in ignorance which are regrettable for me however i know better now and i still keep learning perpetually 😃😃!
Now i often remind myself that if I'm not sure nor know enough about an option I must not decide because it's costly to make decision in Ignorance.
Fear of timing: I'm better late in deciding than living in regret of my decisions. I now try to wait more, calm down, be sure of every choices I decide.
Over Excitement It is very subtle to make decisions while happy, chances are that those decisions are not deeply considered and can be costly. So! Don't always be quick to decide when something seem too good at the moment. Patience is Virtue. Neither is it good to decide when angry or sad. We must always find the balance 😊
Exposure to wrong information and reality: The wrong picture, information you are exposed to is what you will reproduce. Therefore let's consciously choose correctly those we allow to influence our interest, career choice and character goals.
Conclusively! Pressure from friends: Don't allow pressure from anyone, that's why no matter those who inspire and motivate us let's be self motivated and inspired too because ultimately! We are responsible for our success in life..
What enhances right choices is right, enough knowledge and understanding in that area of concern.
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That is the true you are where you are today because of choice that is why making a choice is a very important thing that you really need to seek for advice so you don't make the wrong one.
Many as make a wrong choice today and this as lead them to a life time regret before concluding on a decision always think about the outcome
Ones state of mind can actually affect their choices in life
Anxiety and emotional trauma can contribute to making wrong choices and above all, the choices we make when angered