Hmmm... I am just passing by, but lemme just say this:
I never will attribute the term "sexy" to a lady, if I do not want to be offensive. The word is subjective, but the general notion relates to something sexual.
On the contrary, I do agree that a lady should present herself appealing enough, not for the beholding of the opposite sex, but for herself. And besides, people who are attractive tend to attact more favour.
I understand dear. Same here. Like I said it was something someone put up and I saw a comment totally ruling out the word as bad.
But in the true sense different dictionaries present different meanings of it so it's necessary to always state clearly a good reason why we are against something and make reference to what definition we are speaking from just like @zellypearl did.
Some christian ladies are not trying at all in terms of all I put out there that's why the question came up in the first place. You said everything right in the last paragraph. Thank you for your honest opinion. ❤️
I believe there are much appropriate words to use to attribute a lady than one that would be controvesial. I don't like wahala...
I understand dear. Normally Christian women don't like to be addressed with it. It will always give the impression that someone is being carnal. Thank you for stopping by.