How do I really reward myself?
When I think of it, i might not have rewarded myself in a long time.
But in the past, there were ways I could reward myself.
I could go play games with my friends, see a movie or go play table tennis.
I can remember getting a device then.
Presently, most of the things I do give me rewards.
Like learning to be more skilled in my profession rewards me with more trust from my patient, more sense of fulfilment and other things.
Even if I decide to reward myself with a device, the device will only help me get more rewards.
Do I prefer self reward or reward from other people?
I might prefer reward from other people.
Some weeks ago, someone sent me a message and said that she thanks God everyday for meeting me.
This was just because I onbparded her on hive some months ago and also helped her in her workplace.
This means a lot to me. I don't really see any reward better than the reward of making impact on another man
It is important to get fulfilment from jobs I think. One of the reasons many don't like the jobs they do, is because they do not work out how they can be fulfilled by them.
I agree, (positive impact perhaps :P ), but at the same time, I think it is also valuable to be rewarded for the impact. One of the ironies of the world is that too often, we want people to act better, but we reward poor behavior. We get what we incentivize.
I totally agree with all you have said so far.
I hope we all make positive as we journey through life