Hey sorry mate I didn't mean to upset anyone with the amounts. It's strange because while most people's 2020 sucks, I'm personally having a great year (money wise anyway). Spent the last 13 years living week to week with a mountain of debt. A lot has changed in the last 6 months.
Most of the ETH gas fees were around 3 or 4 dollars. The crazy big ones have only been on certain types of transactions as far as I know. I have not seen any. None of what I'm doing here is urgent, so if I see a fee I don't like I just cancel the transaction and try again later.
All the best mate, I'm sure that the wheel will turn for the better for you soon.