Oh, so sad about your coffee ritual although people get old and things change yes? I'd have coffee with you, although it might be out int he garage with the motorbike.
I'm the same with not wanting people in my space; I don't even like the electrician or plumber turning up to do work as it feels like an invasion. I like to have a clean space though and I put some effort in each day, just a little, usually, mostly, sometimes.
I love my space, it's where I feel safe and that matters yes? Thank you so much for engaging with me.
Becca 💗