This really hit me close to home because I've been struggling to actually crack a genuine smile for so long. Every now and then I may laugh and shit but it is just on the surface.
It is tough sometimes uncle G but you have to stay strong and do the most you can. In Nigeria, we have a saying that goes "I can't come and go and kill myself by myself" which basically means do what you can but also remember to enjoy life, but people like us find it hard to just genuinely let go and just enjoy the moments. Reality is always so serious and the seriousness doesn't seem to be subsiding.
I'm glad you're taking some time away from life's issues to just enjoy a smile here and there, with some good laughs. I'd have loved to come if I was in Australia, maybe one day in the future. I like to drink a few beers and play a video game when I need an escape from life's troubles. Over time, I've learnt that life has an endless supply of problems and if we dwell on them too much, they'll just weigh you down.
Those issues that pervade your mind may still pop up when you're trying to enjoy yourself, so just try your best to laugh and just be in the moment. My prayers are with your dad and your entire family. Stay strong Uncle G
Thanks for your nice message mate, I appreciate it.
Yep, life can be a little complicated at times; I usually have it pretty-well under control but this thing with my dad is pretty difficult to deal with. There is no compromise, no room for inaction, as it is my dad and will do what is required. I did the same for my mum when she had cancer and passed away in quite terrible circumstances and it's starting to feel a little like that now with my dad.
It's been tough for sure, but I've dealt with worse. For my dad I'll do what's required, and of course, keep myself healthy and under control.
This weekend will be good I think. The work phone is off and won't go back on until Tuesday morning so it's just me, my wife Faith and the weekend...I'm hoping not to get a call from the nursing home for my dad, but if it happens I'll deal with it. I'm a responsible dude and will do what's required.
Look out for a smiley selfie!
I'm sorry about your dad's situation and I'll keep praying for the best. Yeah a smilie selfie will be awesome, and maybe even throw in some teeth in the smile? too much to ask for a grin? I like grins
Aww dude, I'm not sure about a grin-selfie...I'll see what I can do, maybe I'll see if I can get one of the two of us...It might take the focus off the fact I'm a fucking ugly bastard to have Faith in it! Lol.
Thanks mate, dad has lead a good life, has been a good dad, generous and honest, kind and humble...We work to make what he has left as comfortable as possible because he deserves it.
Nice idea, you could even stand like 3m away from the camera to ensure there's more focus on her but hey, a grin is a grin lol. Stay strong Uncle G, and my regards to the family.
3m should do it...Or just put a bag on my head with a cut out for my grin to show.
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