The Dangers And Futility Of Being Driven By Vengeance As A Purpose

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There's one thing about vengeance and that's the fact people who dedicates their life to anticipating vengeance are often motivated by the rigorousness to seeking or looking for it more than they're actually motivated by finally realising the end result to quell their vengeance. When someone without a motivation undergoes a quest, it means there's no will to make success at all cost. Sometimes motivation can come like; the fear of losing one's loved ones, the need to prove people wrong, or the willingness to stay accomplishing

But in all honesty, one of the most dangerous things is being motivated by things you see while blinded by emotion. In life each of every progress made is guided by good decisions but when this isn't the case then it presents an entirely different picture. Sentiments brings out the worst in the most noble of people and this is evident when people are being motivated by pain. Pain is indestructible especially when someone who feels it fails honourably in getting rid be of it.

While some people live with their pain, it's necessary to understand that pain not dealt with can end up being the motivation behind one's existence and it's takes away the original purpose of a man. Now how is this possible? Pain has an originator, and this source when not handled might keep bringing pain. However in other to get rid of pain, one needs to get rid of the source and because sometimes the source is unrecognisable, people spend a whole lot of looking for the source, something else happens.

So the fact that purpose gives people a framework towards mapping out their life doesn't mean that there is always a positive purpose. Sometimes the purpose of a person can be negative and such example of a negative purpose is being driven by the malady of seeking for vengeance irrespective of the danger that might be a stumbling block to finally finding the satisfaction that's allegedly drived when one is finally avenged. But believe me, the end of a vengeful quest is often met with temporal satisfaction and a lifelong of emptiness.

However one thing I've realised is that the most cruelest of things is depriving a man the satisfaction of finding closure from a vengeful quest. No one wants to be told that there's fruition in vengeance and this is because we learn more by going through rather than being told. A person can deviate, lose their free spirits, their good virtues because they were put through pain and it's futile to preach the vagueness and remorse that comes with seeking vengeance. It's better to understand beforehand that vengeance should be a lifelong goal else it'll ruin the original purpose to a person's existence.




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Vengeance and the pursuit of it will eat you from the inside out

Exactly, vengeance disuades people from their intentional purpose. Thanks for the comment